Should I report parents as neglect, there is NEVER nutritious food in the house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't get the nasty responses.....TROLLS!
Sadly CPS would probably not care. What about reaching out to Grandparents and the childs school with your concerns. TELL SOMEONE. That way you share your concerns with people who can possibly help and are just made aware of the conditions in the home.
How about making food in your home and bring it in to 'share' with the child. Parent can't stop you bringing in food for yourself to eat and letting the child have some.
That is what I would do and have done.
Good luck to you and don't listen to the morons on this site who should not be caring for a spider never mind children. Nasty, nasty people.

OP here
Thank you for your nice response! I don’t get those nasty people either, must be fat people who eat sandwiches and Macdonald’s all day and are just miserable. This MB is very controlling, she told me not to bring food for myself, and in the interview she told me that good will be HER decisions and I should not be like a boss about it. many times she gave me lists that saod
monday lunch salmon brocolli
monday dinner chicken corn.. for ever day
however, she never bought the food even if i asked her many times, she blew me off. i told her i love to cook and dont mind throwing some pasta on ir throw some chicken in the oven and steam some brocolli
instead the kid just eats waffles or cereal for breakfast, PBJ or ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch and more bread for dinner
i wish i was kidding! and no veggies and barely any fruit.
im trying to just ignore it, but its really getting to me now. in other jobs i would cook more and have fruits available

You don’t sound mature enough to care for anyone’s children.

(And I’m a normal BMI size 6, so don’t bother with the predictable childish retort)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't get the nasty responses.....TROLLS!
Sadly CPS would probably not care. What about reaching out to Grandparents and the childs school with your concerns. TELL SOMEONE. That way you share your concerns with people who can possibly help and are just made aware of the conditions in the home.
How about making food in your home and bring it in to 'share' with the child. Parent can't stop you bringing in food for yourself to eat and letting the child have some.
That is what I would do and have done.
Good luck to you and don't listen to the morons on this site who should not be caring for a spider never mind children. Nasty, nasty people.

OP here
Thank you for your nice response! I don’t get those nasty people either, must be fat people who eat sandwiches and Macdonald’s all day and are just miserable. This MB is very controlling, she told me not to bring food for myself, and in the interview she told me that good will be HER decisions and I should not be like a boss about it. many times she gave me lists that saod
monday lunch salmon brocolli
monday dinner chicken corn.. for ever day
however, she never bought the food even if i asked her many times, she blew me off. i told her i love to cook and dont mind throwing some pasta on ir throw some chicken in the oven and steam some brocolli
instead the kid just eats waffles or cereal for breakfast, PBJ or ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch and more bread for dinner
i wish i was kidding! and no veggies and barely any fruit.
im trying to just ignore it, but its really getting to me now. in other jobs i would cook more and have fruits available

The bolded is not anywhere close to something for CPS. Do not call CPS over a kid eating like a kid.

--A person with a healthy weight whose kids eat great

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't get the nasty responses.....TROLLS!
Sadly CPS would probably not care. What about reaching out to Grandparents and the childs school with your concerns. TELL SOMEONE. That way you share your concerns with people who can possibly help and are just made aware of the conditions in the home.
How about making food in your home and bring it in to 'share' with the child. Parent can't stop you bringing in food for yourself to eat and letting the child have some.
That is what I would do and have done.
Good luck to you and don't listen to the morons on this site who should not be caring for a spider never mind children. Nasty, nasty people.

OP here
Thank you for your nice response! I don’t get those nasty people either, must be fat people who eat sandwiches and Macdonald’s all day and are just miserable. This MB is very controlling, she told me not to bring food for myself, and in the interview she told me that good will be HER decisions and I should not be like a boss about it. many times she gave me lists that saod
monday lunch salmon brocolli
monday dinner chicken corn.. for ever day
however, she never bought the food even if i asked her many times, she blew me off. i told her i love to cook and dont mind throwing some pasta on ir throw some chicken in the oven and steam some brocolli
instead the kid just eats waffles or cereal for breakfast, PBJ or ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch and more bread for dinner
i wish i was kidding! and no veggies and barely any fruit.
im trying to just ignore it, but its really getting to me now. in other jobs i would cook more and have fruits available

They are kids. What they are eating is fine.

[Anonymous]

OP, do you know that ham is meat? I hope the family sees this post and fires you. You sound like an absolute nutter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't get the nasty responses.....TROLLS!
Sadly CPS would probably not care. What about reaching out to Grandparents and the childs school with your concerns. TELL SOMEONE. That way you share your concerns with people who can possibly help and are just made aware of the conditions in the home.
How about making food in your home and bring it in to 'share' with the child. Parent can't stop you bringing in food for yourself to eat and letting the child have some.
That is what I would do and have done.
Good luck to you and don't listen to the morons on this site who should not be caring for a spider never mind children. Nasty, nasty people.

OP here
Thank you for your nice response! I don’t get those nasty people either, must be fat people who eat sandwiches and Macdonald’s all day and are just miserable. This MB is very controlling, she told me not to bring food for myself, and in the interview she told me that good will be HER decisions and I should not be like a boss about it. many times she gave me lists that saod
monday lunch salmon brocolli
monday dinner chicken corn.. for ever day
however, she never bought the food even if i asked her many times, she blew me off. i told her i love to cook and dont mind throwing some pasta on ir throw some chicken in the oven and steam some brocolli
instead the kid just eats waffles or cereal for breakfast, PBJ or ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch and more bread for dinner
i wish i was kidding! and no veggies and barely any fruit.
im trying to just ignore it, but its really getting to me now. in other jobs i would cook more and have fruits available

The bolded is not anywhere close to something for CPS. Do not call CPS over a kid eating like a kid.

--A person with a healthy weight whose kids eat great

+1 this sounds like a typical diet for 75% of small children. You need to get over yourself. I was also once a babysitter
/nanny and looked down on certain decisions the families I worked for made. After becoming a parent myself I realized how clueless and out of touch I had been and have a lot more grace for all the parents just trying to get by.

Wanting to call CPS on a family for serving their young children a carb heavy diet and not enough fruits/vegetables is a new level of psycho though.

[Anonymous]

OP here
Thank you all for your responses
I meant it in a nice way, as the child is sick non stop and 20 pounds overweight…. And he’s very tired all the time, so I was trying to look out for him.
All my previous jobs the kids at least were offered vegetables and fruits, and had a protein rich meal. This boy here will eat meatloaf, chicken cutlets, salmon even. At 4 years old they’re not little toddlers that eat pasta all day, he’s 4 and willing to eat healthy. He even ate all the broccoli the other day when we made it.
My point is she WONT buy it and continue feeding it to him, that’s what I don’t understand and it makes me crazy.

And talk about craziness, he’s sick and can’t swallow the last couple days. So I offered to go buy yoghurts (haven’t had them for a few days), maybe banana, apple sauce, some pudding, ice pops whatever it is she would like me to get, to make the child feel comfortable, as there is nothing in this house

Her response
She scolded me
He doesn’t need anything, he won’t eat anything , we have pasta

Like hello, he can’t swallow, but if he can put down some yoghurt maybe that would be ok with you?!?!?!
I’m done lol

And yes, ham is meat, full of chemicals, should feed that to a child every day you’re right.

[Anonymous]

OP, you're making yourself sound worse with every post. Just quit!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here
Thank you all for your responses
I meant it in a nice way, as the child is sick non stop and 20 pounds overweight…. And he’s very tired all the time, so I was trying to look out for him.
All my previous jobs the kids at least were offered vegetables and fruits, and had a protein rich meal. This boy here will eat meatloaf, chicken cutlets, salmon even. At 4 years old they’re not little toddlers that eat pasta all day, he’s 4 and willing to eat healthy. He even ate all the broccoli the other day when we made it.
My point is she WONT buy it and continue feeding it to him, that’s what I don’t understand and it makes me crazy.

And talk about craziness, he’s sick and can’t swallow the last couple days. So I offered to go buy yoghurts (haven’t had them for a few days), maybe banana, apple sauce, some pudding, ice pops whatever it is she would like me to get, to make the child feel comfortable, as there is nothing in this house

Her response
She scolded me
He doesn’t need anything, he won’t eat anything , we have pasta

Like hello, he can’t swallow, but if he can put down some yoghurt maybe that would be ok with you?!?!?!
I’m done lol

And yes, ham is meat, full of chemicals, should feed that to a child every day you’re right.

Oh, so you're not only against a carb-heavy diet, you want to control the amount of chemicals in food... In other words, you need to find a family who will be fine with you feeding their children fresh cooked food made from whole ingredients, but only the ingredients you approve, because even a bone in ham is full of chemicals...

Get over yourself. Decide if you want to take directions from parents or look for a job in which you control everything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here
Thank you all for your responses
I meant it in a nice way, as the child is sick non stop and 20 pounds overweight…. And he’s very tired all the time, so I was trying to look out for him.
All my previous jobs the kids at least were offered vegetables and fruits, and had a protein rich meal. This boy here will eat meatloaf, chicken cutlets, salmon even. At 4 years old they’re not little toddlers that eat pasta all day, he’s 4 and willing to eat healthy. He even ate all the broccoli the other day when we made it.
My point is she WONT buy it and continue feeding it to him, that’s what I don’t understand and it makes me crazy.

And talk about craziness, he’s sick and can’t swallow the last couple days. So I offered to go buy yoghurts (haven’t had them for a few days), maybe banana, apple sauce, some pudding, ice pops whatever it is she would like me to get, to make the child feel comfortable, as there is nothing in this house

Her response
She scolded me
He doesn’t need anything, he won’t eat anything , we have pasta

Like hello, he can’t swallow, but if he can put down some yoghurt maybe that would be ok with you?!?!?!
I’m done lol

And yes, ham is meat, full of chemicals, should feed that to a child every day you’re right.

Poor family. You sound like a bully.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

And yes, ham is meat, full of chemicals, should feed that to a child every day you’re right.

You are aware that *all* food is chemicals, right? The broccoli you guys made was chock full of chemicals - lots of calcium, magnesium, selenium, iron, zinc, phosphorous - all chemicals.

[Anonymous]

I commend you for caring, OP. I think this is child abuse.
Unfortunately this country has normalized this kind of behavior that CPS won't do anything about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I commend you for caring, OP. I think this is child abuse.
Unfortunately this country has normalized this kind of behavior that CPS won't do anything about it.

This is not child abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I commend you for caring, OP. I think this is child abuse.
Unfortunately this country has normalized this kind of behavior that CPS won't do anything about it.

Child abuse is hurting the child or forcing them to get sick from eating spoiled food. Neglect is not providing enough food. Giving a child crappy food only rises to either if they get something that indicates malnourishment, like rickets or scurvy.

[Anonymous]

I feel like this isn't a CPS kind of problem. You should definitely tell someone about these concerns of yours though! Have a blessed day by the way.

[Anonymous]

Americans are HORRIBLE with eating healthy OP. Horrible and they get so defensive about it. Quit and then scold BOTH parents. I feel bad for the kid. They need to wake up!!