After 6 years with a family and getting a substantial bonus each year…received nothing this year. RSS feed

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yep…I got stiffed. One door closes another opens…


Merry Christmas and Happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year to you and your family.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yep…I got stiffed. One door closes another opens…


Merry Christmas and Happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year to you and your family.


Thank you! Merry Christmas and. Happy Healthy New Year to you and yours!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yep…I got stiffed. One door closes another opens…


Maybe ask the employers? Say maybe something along the line of... not to assume anything, but I usually get a holiday bonus by now, I need to do some holiday shopping/financial planning and was wondering if I will be getting one?
Anonymous
Did the kids start school this year? I used to receive $1000 every year and then once the kids started school I started getting $200. Kind of sucks but whatever. I was still full time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yep…I got stiffed. One door closes another opens…


Maybe ask the employers? Say maybe something along the line of... not to assume anything, but I usually get a holiday bonus by now, I need to do some holiday shopping/financial planning and was wondering if I will be getting one?


I wouldn’t feel comfortable asking…I do understand that a bonus is up to them. I just wish they had a conversation with me about it…it’s hard for an employee to receive one every year and then nothing..especially when I’m constantly told that I am greatly appreciated for all I do for the kids and family.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did the kids start school this year? I used to receive $1000 every year and then once the kids started school I started getting $200. Kind of sucks but whatever. I was still full time.


No, the school schedule is the same for the older 3 but there is a new baby. I have no idea what is going on. Maybe it’s just time to move on.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did the kids start school this year? I used to receive $1000 every year and then once the kids started school I started getting $200. Kind of sucks but whatever. I was still full time.


No, the school schedule is the same for the older 3 but there is a new baby. I have no idea what is going on. Maybe it’s just time to move on.


It's past time to move on. They added another child for you to care for and nothing. It's outrageous that they only gave you a $200 bonus once kids were in school.

Anonymous
Maybe they can't afford it this year. Times are hard for a lot of people. It is best to be understanding, but grateful during this time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe they can't afford it this year. Times are hard for a lot of people. It is best to be understanding, but grateful during this time.


Wonder if parents would be understanding snd grateful if their employers treated them the same way
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe they can't afford it this year. Times are hard for a lot of people. It is best to be understanding, but grateful during this time.


If they can’t afford it then a conversation should have happened. Understanding about what? I’ve been with them several years and they don’t have the decency to have a talk with me? Is that a kind way to handle this? I should be grateful that they think it’s okay to treat me disrespectfully?
I said from the beginning I know a bonus is optional. Giving one every year and then to not even address that they are unable to do it, is rotten.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe they can't afford it this year. Times are hard for a lot of people. It is best to be understanding, but grateful during this time.


"It's not the earth the meek inherit, it's the dirt."
Anonymous
Do move on , Nanny. You are not appreciated or respected. 2 weeks notice.
Anonymous
If they can't afford a nanny bonus, they certainly can't afford a new baby! Are they going to the county food bank at this point?
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