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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dishes unwashed from last night dinner, clothes in dryer still from yesterday, kids drinking apple juice at 7 am, the mom forgot to feed them breakfast again, and Kids lunch not made as usual. Fun times fully guarantee! I wrote my noticed six months ago and just updated today’s date. Done!


Its their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer. Why are you in the dryer anyway if the parents do all the laundry? And, its ok to leave dishes in the sink. If you are there at 7 AM why can't you feed them breakfast and lunch. That is your job that you are paid for.


This is exactly is the kind of parents, every nanny have to avoid at all coast. It's ok leave dishes in the sink and leave clothes in the dryer??? Woww. Yes, we know it's your home.. but nannies need the dryer empty and sink empty to do kids laundry and wash kid's bottles and dishes. So if you parents do all your laundry It's your Job and you responsibility clean up after yourselves; and leaving the areas empty so the Nanny can do her work. The nanny it's not responsible of taking away all your thongs from the dryer and wash your plates after you eat. This is your responsibility and not hers.


Actually the parents are doing the Nannie’s job and she is a basic babysitter at best.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dishes unwashed from last night dinner, clothes in dryer still from yesterday, kids drinking apple juice at 7 am, the mom forgot to feed them breakfast again, and Kids lunch not made as usual. Fun times fully guarantee! I wrote my noticed six months ago and just updated today’s date. Done!


Its their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer. Why are you in the dryer anyway if the parents do all the laundry? And, its ok to leave dishes in the sink. If you are there at 7 AM why can't you feed them breakfast and lunch. That is your job that you are paid for.


This is exactly is the kind of parents, every nanny have to avoid at all coast. It's ok leave dishes in the sink and leave clothes in the dryer??? Woww. Yes, we know it's your home.. but nannies need the dryer empty and sink empty to do kids laundry and wash kid's bottles and dishes. So if you parents do all your laundry It's your Job and you responsibility clean up after yourselves; and leaving the areas empty so the Nanny can do her work. The nanny it's not responsible of taking away all your thongs from the dryer and wash your plates after you eat. This is your responsibility and not hers.


Actually the parents are doing the Nannie’s job and she is a basic babysitter at best.



No, they aren’t doing the nanny’s job, PP. For your sake, I hope you aren’t a nanny.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dishes unwashed from last night dinner, clothes in dryer still from yesterday, kids drinking apple juice at 7 am, the mom forgot to feed them breakfast again, and Kids lunch not made as usual. Fun times fully guarantee! I wrote my noticed six months ago and just updated today’s date. Done!


Its their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer. Why are you in the dryer anyway if the parents do all the laundry? And, its ok to leave dishes in the sink. If you are there at 7 AM why can't you feed them breakfast and lunch. That is your job that you are paid for.


This is exactly is the kind of parents, every nanny have to avoid at all coast. It's ok leave dishes in the sink and leave clothes in the dryer??? Woww. Yes, we know it's your home.. but nannies need the dryer empty and sink empty to do kids laundry and wash kid's bottles and dishes. So if you parents do all your laundry It's your Job and you responsibility clean up after yourselves; and leaving the areas empty so the Nanny can do her work. The nanny it's not responsible of taking away all your thongs from the dryer and wash your plates after you eat. This is your responsibility and not hers.


Actually the parents are doing the Nannie’s job and she is a basic babysitter at best.



No, they aren’t doing the nanny’s job, PP. For your sake, I hope you aren’t a nanny.


Certainly this is a mom PP.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why you didn't keep your word. Why are you still there? If you gave your notice 6 months ago? A family never change. It's incredible how in these times when parents even working from home; tend to leave all sink full of dishes, even worse just throwing their plates after their lunch; thinking it's total responsibility of the nanny to do it as their maid. Even though the dishwasher it's empty; and expecting nannies wash their pans too. Quit


They are starting work at 7 am and complaining the parents had not fed the kids breakfast yet. They are also complaining the parents didn't make lunch - their job. It is their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer and dishes in the sink. No one demanded the lazy nanny do it. If the nanny will not feed the kids breakfast or lunch, what is their job.


OP here,

It's not my job to cook. Food is cooked and prepared before I get to work. Also I don't clean their mess from the night before. My job is to keep the kids occupied and safe for eight hours. Kid throw up her breakfast, so I need to wash her clothes. The washer and dryer is never empty as usual. Same with the dishwasher. I hand wash our daily dishes and put away
Anonymous
What did the mother-employer say, OP?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What did the mother-employer say, OP?


This morning the mom asked me if it was possible to change my mind about quitting if we upgrade my work hours. I said no, I need my hours to stay 7 am to 3pm to fit my children school schedule. She was not happy with my answer. I took this job specifically for that reason.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the mother-employer say, OP?


This morning the mom asked me if it was possible to change my mind about quitting if we upgrade my work hours. I said no, I need my hours to stay 7 am to 3pm to fit my children school schedule. She was not happy with my answer. I took this job specifically for that reason.


All the best, OP!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the mother-employer say, OP?


This morning the mom asked me if it was possible to change my mind about quitting if we upgrade my work hours. I said no, I need my hours to stay 7 am to 3pm to fit my children school schedule. She was not happy with my answer. I took this job specifically for that reason.


All the best, OP!


Thank you so much! I am can miss the kids but I need a stress free
environment and family that respects my schedule.











Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why you didn't keep your word. Why are you still there? If you gave your notice 6 months ago? A family never change. It's incredible how in these times when parents even working from home; tend to leave all sink full of dishes, even worse just throwing their plates after their lunch; thinking it's total responsibility of the nanny to do it as their maid. Even though the dishwasher it's empty; and expecting nannies wash their pans too. Quit


They are starting work at 7 am and complaining the parents had not fed the kids breakfast yet. They are also complaining the parents didn't make lunch - their job. It is their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer and dishes in the sink. No one demanded the lazy nanny do it. If the nanny will not feed the kids breakfast or lunch, what is their job.


OP here,

It's not my job to cook. Food is cooked and prepared before I get to work. Also I don't clean their mess from the night before. My job is to keep the kids occupied and safe for eight hours. Kid throw up her breakfast, so I need to wash her clothes. The washer and dryer is never empty as usual. Same with the dishwasher. I hand wash our daily dishes and put away


So, you are a basic babysitter as even babysitters cook for kids. This is their home. They work full time and then come home to have to clean up to you, have the kids needs and household. It’s not reasonable to have everything perfect. Rinse the clothes in the sink and leave it for them. One shirt or outfit is eastful to wash alone.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the mother-employer say, OP?


This morning the mom asked me if it was possible to change my mind about quitting if we upgrade my work hours. I said no, I need my hours to stay 7 am to 3pm to fit my children school schedule. She was not happy with my answer. I took this job specifically for that reason.


Good luck finding a job with those hours.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why you didn't keep your word. Why are you still there? If you gave your notice 6 months ago? A family never change. It's incredible how in these times when parents even working from home; tend to leave all sink full of dishes, even worse just throwing their plates after their lunch; thinking it's total responsibility of the nanny to do it as their maid. Even though the dishwasher it's empty; and expecting nannies wash their pans too. Quit


They are starting work at 7 am and complaining the parents had not fed the kids breakfast yet. They are also complaining the parents didn't make lunch - their job. It is their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer and dishes in the sink. No one demanded the lazy nanny do it. If the nanny will not feed the kids breakfast or lunch, what is their job.



OP here,

It's not my job to cook. Food is cooked and prepared before I get to work. Also I don't clean their mess from the night before. My job is to keep the kids occupied and safe for eight hours. Kid throw up her breakfast, so I need to wash her clothes. The washer and dryer is never empty as usual. Same with the dishwasher. I hand wash our daily dishes and put away


So, you are a basic babysitter as even babysitters cook for kids. This is their home. They work full time and then come home to have to clean up to you, have the kids needs and household. It’s not reasonable to have everything perfect. Rinse the clothes in the sink and leave it for them. One shirt or outfit is eastful to wash alone.


Sure if it makes you feel better! I work with kids with special needs.Autistic speech therapy and behavioral issues. My background is in social services and special need population. I didn't sign up to cook and clean.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why you didn't keep your word. Why are you still there? If you gave your notice 6 months ago? A family never change. It's incredible how in these times when parents even working from home; tend to leave all sink full of dishes, even worse just throwing their plates after their lunch; thinking it's total responsibility of the nanny to do it as their maid. Even though the dishwasher it's empty; and expecting nannies wash their pans too. Quit


They are starting work at 7 am and complaining the parents had not fed the kids breakfast yet. They are also complaining the parents didn't make lunch - their job. It is their home. Its ok they leave clothes in the dryer and dishes in the sink. No one demanded the lazy nanny do it. If the nanny will not feed the kids breakfast or lunch, what is their job.



OP here,

It's not my job to cook. Food is cooked and prepared before I get to work. Also I don't clean their mess from the night before. My job is to keep the kids occupied and safe for eight hours. Kid throw up her breakfast, so I need to wash her clothes. The washer and dryer is never empty as usual. Same with the dishwasher. I hand wash our daily dishes and put away


So, you are a basic babysitter as even babysitters cook for kids. This is their home. They work full time and then come home to have to clean up to you, have the kids needs and household. It’s not reasonable to have everything perfect. Rinse the clothes in the sink and leave it for them. One shirt or outfit is eastful to wash alone.


Sure if it makes you feel better! I work with kids with special needs.Autistic speech therapy and behavioral issues. My background is in social services and special need population. I didn't sign up to cook and clean.


You sound barely educated. Good luck finding another job.
Anonymous
Good on you OP for standing up for yourself!

If all Nannies did just this - then employers would learn to treat their own Nannies w/the respect that they deserve!
Anonymous
As a working mom, I pretty much always have a load of laundry in the washer and dryer. I always start a load before leaving the house. And I definitely will leave dishes in the sink from the night before a couple of times a week. Not all the dishes - just the ones that didn’t fit in the dishwasher.

Why would this affect a nanny?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Dishes unwashed from last night dinner, clothes in dryer still from yesterday, kids drinking apple juice at 7 am, the mom forgot to feed them breakfast again, and Kids lunch not made as usual. Fun times fully guarantee! I wrote my noticed six months ago and just updated today’s date. Done!


Good for you. I hope you find a nice, clean family. There is no excuse for leaving na mess for nanny and I would not clean it for them.
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