Would this bother you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, just tell your sitter that you understand her desire to be helpful but that you feel the play dates with this particular child are not in the best interest of your child and that you would like for her to prioritize your child’s well being and keep her best interest at the forefront of all decisions. Is this also the child that you’re doing carpool with? Did your sitter ask if the carpool was okay before arranging it? Even as a full time nanny, I would not do that without discussion with my bosses.

We don't carpool, that must be a different poster?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, just tell your sitter that you understand her desire to be helpful but that you feel the play dates with this particular child are not in the best interest of your child and that you would like for her to prioritize your child’s well being and keep her best interest at the forefront of all decisions. Is this also the child that you’re doing carpool with? Did your sitter ask if the carpool was okay before arranging it? Even as a full time nanny, I would not do that without discussion with my bosses.

We don't carpool, that must be a different poster?

You said that the “regular favor” that the sitter got you involved in was pick-up. I assumed that was through a carpool situation.