Resentment towards parents I nanny for

[Anonymous]

So sorry OP for having such inconsiderate, rude bosses.

The main dealbreaker here is that they told you one thing regarding your pay, however they have not held up to their word.

This clearly demonstrates that they are not only liars, but that they are taking full advantage of you which would make me want to stop working for them.

My suggestion:
Quit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP need the money because it is easy money. Maybe no tax deduction plus they pay OP in cash.

OP wont find any new family because with this family OP dont have to drive, go to their house, clean up their kitchen etc.

OP can just stay at her own home clean her house to spot clean at the same time gets money from the girl parents.

You sound envious.

+1

Your wording makes you sound uneducated.
And that you have zero class.

Not trying to be snarky - but your response to the OP was just really dumb.

[Anonymous]

You are not a nanny if its in your home. You are an unlicensed day care provider.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are not a nanny if its in your home. You are an unlicensed day care provider.

+1. This is true, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are not a nanny if its in your home. You are an unlicensed day care provider.

Not OP, and I agree with the sentiment, but I don’t think you need a license to watch one child in your home. Am I wrong? But she is probably being paid less that a daycare provider would charge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP need the money because it is easy money. Maybe no tax deduction plus they pay OP in cash.

OP wont find any new family because with this family OP dont have to drive, go to their house, clean up their kitchen etc.

OP can just stay at her own home clean her house to spot clean at the same time gets money from the girl parents.

You sound envious.

Not at all. I was in the same situation two years ago. No nanny cameras no people watching just me and the baby. EASY MONEY. I quit the job (after almost 1 year and half) because the mom wants me to do Russian exercise for her son. Go to YouTube and find out yourself what is Russian exercise for baby.

Again trust me OP will continue working for this family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are not a nanny if its in your home. You are an unlicensed day care provider.

Not OP, and I agree with the sentiment, but I don’t think you need a license to watch one child in your home. Am I wrong? But she is probably being paid less that a daycare provider would charge.

It depends on what state you live. I know that in Maryland you absolutely do need a license if it’s more than 20 hours a month. Ops situation sounds like the worst of both worlds. She is a daycare with only one child, so she can’t make more money, is going by somebody else’s policies rather than her own ( in her own home ) and seems to have zero authority . She has a nanny family that doesn’t pay her for vacations, drop off and pick up whenever they feel like it and treat her poorly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP need the money because it is easy money. Maybe no tax deduction plus they pay OP in cash.

OP wont find any new family because with this family OP dont have to drive, go to their house, clean up their kitchen etc.

OP can just stay at her own home clean her house to spot clean at the same time gets money from the girl parents.

You sound envious.

Not at all. I was in the same situation two years ago. No nanny cameras no people watching just me and the baby. EASY MONEY. I quit the job (after almost 1 year and half) because the mom wants me to do Russian exercise for her son. Go to YouTube and find out yourself what is Russian exercise for baby.

Again trust me OP will continue working for this family.

It’s not just her and the baby. She has her own children so it is more like a nannyshare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To put it bluntly:
1. You're allowing it to happen.
2. Ask for clothes. They can't read your mind.
3. Ask for appropriate clothes. They can't read your mind.
4. Insinuated? Not good enough. Spell things out. You should have a written contract.
5. How do you know about any of this? As an aside, if she's old enough for potty training, she shouldn't be in a high chair.

Don't compare yourself to a daycare unless you're licensed like one.

Disagree, this is a classic example of someone trying out an in-home daycare and realizing that nannying and running a daycare are very, very different.

This is a daycare. Write out your rules. Hand them to the parents, along with a contract to sign, payment rate and schedule, and drop off/pick up schedule and early/late fees. Make them understand that if they want daycare that is flexible to them, they will pay for it. If not, they need to find a center or employ a nanny in their home.

[Anonymous]

In CA where I reside, you can watch as many kids as you want, only if they are all in the same family.

At least that was the rule last time I checked.
About ten years ago.
Ha!!