Please correct me if I am wrong

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here the five years old go to school in the morning and the he go to therapist he has ADHD.
He came home at 4.00. At 4.30 I take toddler to park or outside.
I don’t mind if I don’t take him so they spend time together. But Mom wants me to leave

Wait, so the 5 year old doesn’t go to the park or outside at 4.30?! This is crazy...

[Anonymous]

Op here, I don’t mind to take him out but he is not interested.

[Anonymous]

Op, this isn't about you. You did a good hob but they don't need you anymore. They have stuff going on. Be proud of the work you did, use their reference and find a new family who needs you.

[Anonymous]

if you are willing to work afternoons and evenings (e.g. after school) and you have glowing references, your services will be highly in demand. Just move on. (I'd hire you )

[Anonymous]

Op here thanks for all helpful replies. Your kind words means a lot to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here the five years old go to school in the morning and the he go to therapist he has ADHD.
He came home at 4.00. At 4.30 I take toddler to park or outside.
I don’t mind if I don’t take him so they spend time together. But Mom wants me to leave

Wait, so the 5 year old doesn’t go to the park or outside at 4.30?! This is crazy...

So, the two actually don’t spend time together... Why in the world didn’t you change the schedule to go to the park earlier so the siblings could be together in the afternoon? It sounds to me like they’re going to look for someone who will take on care for both kids and prioritize that bond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here the five years old go to school in the morning and the he go to therapist he has ADHD.
He came home at 4.00. At 4.30 I take toddler to park or outside.
I don’t mind if I don’t take him so they spend time together. But Mom wants me to leave

Wait, so the 5 year old doesn’t go to the park or outside at 4.30?! This is crazy...

So, the two actually don’t spend time together... Why in the world didn’t you change the schedule to go to the park earlier so the siblings could be together in the afternoon? It sounds to me like they’re going to look for someone who will take on care for both kids and prioritize that bond.

Op here, the Mom is going to do that job. Since, she don’t work and stays at home.
I asked her many times but she told me her son (oldest) is very tired . He been in school then therapy so she prefer he stay home and I have to take The younger to the park.
Now , she wants both kids spend time together. I offer her I could arrange. But she said different things. I think they have issues in their marriage.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s pretty clear that it’s one of 2 issues and maybe a combo

1) they will separate so they can’t afford you (although his one doesn’t make total sense as regardless if they divorce, they still need a child care option

2) husband has a crush on you or made some comment regarding your physical appearance and wife did not like and felt it best to move on

[Anonymous]

Okay, so this is the situation:
Sahm
Wohd
Charge (toddler/preschool)
Sibling (5)

They’re finally realizing that siblings NEED time together, and mom is going to do it? Sounds like possibly money issues, marital issues, possibly thinking you should have pushed more to have the kids together to create the bond. Whatever the issue, you need to move on and focus on a new family. I would also suggest making sure that you raise the sibling bond as an issue with new employers if you run into the same situation again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so this is the situation:
Sahm
Wohd
Charge (toddler/preschool)
Sibling (5)

They’re finally realizing that siblings NEED time together, and mom is going to do it? Sounds like possibly money issues, marital issues, possibly thinking you should have pushed more to have the kids together to create the bond. Whatever the issue, you need to move on and focus on a new family. I would also suggest making sure that you raise the sibling bond as an issue with new employers if you run into the same situation again.

Op here, well I think its Mom job to tell me to work on that. I meant she had to mention me that she wants their kids spend more time together.
If Mom didn’t pay attention to this matter then who am I.
She loved me whenever I took the toddler outside.
Mostly, people wants to hire active nanny. So I just did what she was expecting from me.

[Anonymous]

Op here I did excellent care of toddler. The husband mentioned many times the they are fortunate to have me in their live. Since, I cooked meals for the family and took care of toddler very well.
They gave me glowing reference letter.