What would you do if you nannied for a violent child

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree OP - you need to move on. But part of the reason is because you are sitting judgment on the parents - this is not all on the child or the employers.

The solution for this child will have to include a nanny who is on board w/ whatever approach will be used so yes, find something else.

Oh please. Ladies here are such bltches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree OP - you need to move on. But part of the reason is because you are sitting judgment on the parents - this is not all on the child or the employers.

The solution for this child will have to include a nanny who is on board w/ whatever approach will be used so yes, find something else.

This is op again.

I agree they need someone who will be on board. I have been on board with them to this point, we talk about his behavior very frequently and we've even all read the book 1 2 3 Magic to implement it together.

I simply can't and won't be physically and verbally abused in my job anymore, so no, I will no longer be on board. You say that like it's a bad thing.

[Anonymous]

(Continued) Also, for you to imply I am somehow at fault for his behavior as well isn't something you can say without experiencing the situation. The fact is the boy is actually the most violent with me, simply because I am the only one who will dare to try to lay down the law with him.

[Anonymous]

"The fact is the boy is actually the most violent with me."

I don't need to imply anything. Perhaps the best thing you can do for the child is to leave.

Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"The fact is the boy is actually the most violent with me."

I don't need to imply anything. Perhaps the best thing you can do for the child is to leave.

Good luck.

The kid has a problem with authority, so anyone who enforces the rules is who gets the most of his misbehavior. What is so hard to understand about that? Can you not be rude for one post?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"The fact is the boy is actually the most violent with me."

I don't need to imply anything. Perhaps the best thing you can do for the child is to leave.

Good luck.

Are you the same user who jumps into every thread to misconstrue everything people say just for the sake of being a nanny hating troll? I bet you've never worked with kids a day in your life. I'm sick of you. Goodbye

[Anonymous]

Nanny please for your mind and body leave that job. It's the parents fault, they gotta be more firm, like you to tame that out of control boy. That's why I always ask in job interviews what kind of dicipline you apply to your kids.
Permissive parents, spoiling him, caving in to thier tantrums is CHILD ABUSE.