Disney Vacation - wanting to leave nanny at home

[Anonymous]

I'd go.

But I like my bosses.

[Anonymous]

I'd be absolutely thrilled to get an entire paid week off work and have the house to myself for a week. I'd be.......much less thrilled to go on vacation with my nanny family. Just being honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be absolutely thrilled to get an entire paid week off work and have the house to myself for a week. I'd be.......much less thrilled to go on vacation with my nanny family. Just being honest.

Would you be willing to house sit? You know, check the mail, maybe restock the groceries before they return, water the plants, feed the fish?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a live in nanny myself who has always been invited on family vacations I would be hurt. I've had employers that didn't need me to work invite me along with the explanation that I need to pay for my own entertainment, food and flight. My hotel accommodations have always been paid for by my employers as they usually get a 2 bedroom suite.

That would be really expensive at Disney, even if accommodations were covered.

But by offering, you are putting the onus of deciding whether it's financially feasible on her. If you don't need her help, be clear that you will not ask her to watch kids AT ALL, offer to pay for her room if she comes, but make sure she understands that she is responsible for all other costs and she will only be getting her normal salary.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be absolutely thrilled to get an entire paid week off work and have the house to myself for a week. I'd be.......much less thrilled to go on vacation with my nanny family. Just being honest.

Would you be willing to house sit? You know, check the mail, maybe restock the groceries before they return, water the plants, feed the fish?

PP here. Oh, absolutely. I've been a live-in nanny many times and have always house-sat for them while they're on vacation. I'd say restocking the groceries is maybe a little much, I only say that because in the families I've lived with, I had my own food and they had theirs, we didn't really share anything other than milk & eggs. But if she needs to go to the store for herself anyway, I don't see a problem asking her to pick up a few things for you guys as well.

[Anonymous]

MB here who's taken Au Pairs and nannies on vacation.

I say skip the nanny in Disney, unless YOU positively absolutely need her (which it sounds like you don't) They don't view it as a vacation, even if we give them lots of free time, and only we know/appreciate how very expensive it is to bring and pay for everything for an extra person. I've ended a few vacations resentful that I didn't get as much help as I thought. Also, it's harder living together in tighter quarters- uncomfortable really.

Leave nanny at home and give her the week off, or if she's not off, give her some errands to do.

[Anonymous]

I would LOVE for my employers to take the kids and pay me to stay home!!!

[Anonymous]

We leave our live in nanny at home and instead of child care, her week's responsibilities include feeding the fish, taking in mail. Much better for both of us.