Nanny's breast reduction

[Anonymous]

AFLAC?

[Anonymous]

I wish I could afford a BR. With my 5'1 frame, a 40d is just too much to handle. I've been getting back pain lately and every top I wear is just too tight. M dreading when I will get preg and have kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Considering this is a form of elective surgery, I would let her use her vacation pay.

It wouldn't be fair to your family to have to pay her for something like this.

It's not elective in this case- medical reasons.

Give me a break. Not elective my ass. I have 36 k's and I'm not having elective surgery becuae my back hurts. Yes my back hurts I suck it up because that's the cards life dealt me. I would never even think of doing this to my nf. This is something you do when you are unemployed.

Does that theory apply to all professions or just nannies?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our nanny of a year is getting a reduction. For medical reasons as well as its obvious to anyone with her frame she must be in pain and disproportionate. My question is she won't be able to lift for a while after and how do we deal with her recovery time? Do we pay her in full? Use up her vacation? I'd like to work something out as the procedure is pricey but my husband thinks it will be a lot longer time off than we anticipate.

are you jealous of your Nanny? I am so Glad she's not going fraternity clinic thats for sure .Not bring other human being in her life she doesn't taking care of well. of course you have to pay her full . If I'm not making mistake she work for you dear...you must be around 40s you not comfortable with yourself !!! The reason I'm asking because you're not sure that with you have to pay or not she must be look good you have to !!!

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Considering this is a form of elective surgery, I would let her use her vacation pay.

It wouldn't be fair to your family to have to pay her for something like this.

It's not elective in this case- medical reasons.

I have all kinds of "medical" issues my doctors recommend I get surgery for but I don't because I have a job. A real job. And I still won't do them. If your nanny is electing to do something as silly as a breast reduction (and why would you hire someone with such an obvious issue in the first place you should ask yourself) then she would be lucky and blessed to keep her job at best. Don't pay her a dime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Considering this is a form of elective surgery, I would let her use her vacation pay.

It wouldn't be fair to your family to have to pay her for something like this.

It's not elective in this case- medical reasons.

I have all kinds of "medical" issues my doctors recommend I get surgery for but I don't because I have a job. A real job. And I still won't do them. If your nanny is electing to do something as silly as a breast reduction (and why would you hire someone with such an obvious issue in the first place you should ask yourself) then she would be lucky and blessed to keep her job at best. Don't pay her a dime.

What a ridiculous bubble you live in.

[Anonymous]

Breast reduction is paid for by insurance because IT IS NECESSARY AND IS NOT COSMETIC OR ELECTIVE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our nanny of a year is getting a reduction. For medical reasons as well as its obvious to anyone with her frame she must be in pain and disproportionate. My question is she won't be able to lift for a while after and how do we deal with her recovery time? Do we pay her in full? Use up her vacation? I'd like to work something out as the procedure is pricey but my husband thinks it will be a lot longer time off than we anticipate.

are you jealous of your Nanny? I am so Glad she's not going fraternity clinic thats for sure .Not bring other human being in her life she doesn't taking care of well. of course you have to pay her full . If I'm not making mistake she work for you dear...you must be around 40s you not comfortable with yourself !!! The reason I'm asking because you're not sure that with you have to pay or not she must be look good you have to !!!

This is incomprehensible rambling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are you even entertaining this? You are a family employing a nanny, not a small business or corporation. Just let her go and find a new nanny who can work. You are insane if you consider paying her to recover from elective cosmetic surgery, or any surgery at all. Needed or not, it's not your responsibility.

Cruella Devil has spoken. You are one sorrysorryexcuse of a human being.

You are nuts. This is a household employee. Many households cannot afford to pay the nanny to be off for an extended time for a surgery like this, elective or not. OP, do th best you can; if you have to find a new nanny, then so be it. But you don't have to go out of pocket for this one more than you can afford to.