nanny 101- don't hire hot young girls

[Anonymous]

Oh, honey. Is that what your DH tells you? He just can't control himself? Maybe you should require your nannies where Duggar-style modest clothes. Men are just simpletons who can't be held accountable obviously.

(PS thanks to the non asshole men in this thread calling out the BS.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I stumbled on this site looking for a new nanny for our kids.

This post and some of the responses are really dysfunctional.I love my kids and wife and would never do something so stupid as to destroy thr most important people in my life.

If I wanted to be an idiot and have an affair, I'd do it at thr office where there is a separation between my kids and that acticity.

I can only imagine the kind of pigs you women married that you can't have trust in your marriage and have to protect against younger women. Any man who would carry on with his children's child care provider is a scumbag.

I assure you that there are more good men out there than bad ones. I hope some of you find that one day.

No one sets out to have an affair with their children's nanny or anyone else in their day-to-day life. You have an affair with the person who is most available when you are most vulnerable.

Not even close to being true. Obviously you have no clue what you are talking about but here's a hint; people do not have affairs with the neighbor, the nanny, their kid's teacher, basically anyone who is close enough in their life that they see them on a regular basis and would be easily caught. Affairs are nothing about vulnerability and women cheat just as often as men. I'm glad all of your knowledge of affairs seems to come from movies and tv, but please don't come here and try to add fuel to a fire in which you don't even hold a match.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I stumbled on this site looking for a new nanny for our kids.

This post and some of the responses are really dysfunctional.I love my kids and wife and would never do something so stupid as to destroy thr most important people in my life.

If I wanted to be an idiot and have an affair, I'd do it at thr office where there is a separation between my kids and that acticity.

I can only imagine the kind of pigs you women married that you can't have trust in your marriage and have to protect against younger women. Any man who would carry on with his children's child care provider is a scumbag.

I assure you that there are more good men out there than bad ones. I hope some of you find that one day.

No one sets out to have an affair with their children's nanny or anyone else in their day-to-day life. You have an affair with the person who is most available when you are most vulnerable.

Not even close to being true. Obviously you have no clue what you are talking about but here's a hint; people do not have affairs with the neighbor, the nanny, their kid's teacher, basically anyone who is close enough in their life that they see them on a regular basis and would be easily caught. Affairs are nothing about vulnerability and women cheat just as often as men. I'm glad all of your knowledge of affairs seems to come from movies and tv, but please don't come here and try to add fuel to a fire in which you don't even hold a match.

Obviously things happen in life sometimes. However,
1. Only very reckless people let this kind of thing happen and if it happens, you probably made questionable choices in other areas of your life and have a corresponding life with lots of areas for improvement
2. This forum, as I have observed over the years, is full of unfulfilled nannies. They have a fantasy of becoming MB. So of course this type of posts get made. It's really driven by nanny fantasies (not sexual, but more lifestyle change) more than a realistic problem prevalent in the nanny industry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I stumbled on this site looking for a new nanny for our kids.

This post and some of the responses are really dysfunctional.I love my kids and wife and would never do something so stupid as to destroy thr most important people in my life.

If I wanted to be an idiot and have an affair, I'd do it at thr office where there is a separation between my kids and that acticity.

I can only imagine the kind of pigs you women married that you can't have trust in your marriage and have to protect against younger women. Any man who would carry on with his children's child care provider is a scumbag.

I assure you that there are more good men out there than bad ones. I hope some of you find that one day.

No one sets out to have an affair with their children's nanny or anyone else in their day-to-day life. You have an affair with the person who is most available when you are most vulnerable.

Not even close to being true. Obviously you have no clue what you are talking about but here's a hint; people do not have affairs with the neighbor, the nanny, their kid's teacher, basically anyone who is close enough in their life that they see them on a regular basis and would be easily caught. Affairs are nothing about vulnerability and women cheat just as often as men. I'm glad all of your knowledge of affairs seems to come from movies and tv, but please don't come here and try to add fuel to a fire in which you don't even hold a match.

Obviously things happen in life sometimes. However,
1. Only very reckless people let this kind of thing happen and if it happens, you probably made questionable choices in other areas of your life and have a corresponding life with lots of areas for improvement
2. This forum, as I have observed over the years, is full of unfulfilled nannies. They have a fantasy of becoming MB. So of course this type of posts get made. It's really driven by nanny fantasies (not sexual, but more lifestyle change) more than a realistic problem prevalent in the nanny industry.

Actually, I think it is fueled by extremely insecure and mentally ill MBs who don't trust their husbands because they either have poor choice in men, or need mental help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I stumbled on this site looking for a new nanny for our kids.

This post and some of the responses are really dysfunctional.I love my kids and wife and would never do something so stupid as to destroy thr most important people in my life.

If I wanted to be an idiot and have an affair, I'd do it at thr office where there is a separation between my kids and that acticity.

I can only imagine the kind of pigs you women married that you can't have trust in your marriage and have to protect against younger women. Any man who would carry on with his children's child care provider is a scumbag.

I assure you that there are more good men out there than bad ones. I hope some of you find that one day.

No one sets out to have an affair with their children's nanny or anyone else in their day-to-day life. You have an affair with the person who is most available when you are most vulnerable.

Not even close to being true. Obviously you have no clue what you are talking about but here's a hint; people do not have affairs with the neighbor, the nanny, their kid's teacher, basically anyone who is close enough in their life that they see them on a regular basis and would be easily caught. Affairs are nothing about vulnerability and women cheat just as often as men. I'm glad all of your knowledge of affairs seems to come from movies and tv, but please don't come here and try to add fuel to a fire in which you don't even hold a match.

Thank God my knowledge of affairs comes only from what I have read and studied! I defer completely to your actual experience as a cheater or someone often cheated on.