Nannies, what would you do if you knew DB was having an affair?

[Anonymous]

I'd begin looking for a new job and mind my own business like virtually all of the PPs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You watch the nanny cam footage? If so, that isn't a very smart MB or DB, since obviously they know about the camera and have access to it. The cheater will get outed by that on its own.

You should just stick to your job and mind your own business.

NO! I don't monitor the nanny cam, we don't even have a nanny cam. I guess the PP thought that's how I knew, but I physically have seen the cheating going on....and it's like DB could care less that I know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You watch the nanny cam footage? If so, that isn't a very smart MB or DB, since obviously they know about the camera and have access to it. The cheater will get outed by that on its own.

You should just stick to your job and mind your own business.

NO! I don't monitor the nanny cam, we don't even have a nanny cam. I guess the PP thought that's how I knew, but I physically have seen the cheating going on....and it's like DB could care less that I know.

If he doesn't seem to care, you really need to butt out. You don't know what type of relationship DB/MB have and it is totally not your place to put it in jeopardy. Cheating ends two ways, people find out and shit falls apart, or things just end and no one is the wiser. This needs to play out on its own, and its unlikely that anyone will be thanking you if you decide to insert yourself in their business.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't go out of my way to tell the spouse, but I wouldn't cover for anyone either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't go out of my way to tell the spouse, but I wouldn't cover for anyone either.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't go out of my way to tell the spouse, but I wouldn't cover for anyone either.

+1

+2

[Anonymous]

Maybe they have a hall pass or an open relationship? MYOB and get a life, OP.

[Anonymous]

I would play dumb, just like the DH

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe they have a hall pass or an open relationship? MYOB and get a life, OP.

Wow, was this response warranted?

[Anonymous]

^^ I guess you're new around here. That was pretty mild, honey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^ I guess you're new around here. That was pretty mild, honey.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You watch the nanny cam footage? If so, that isn't a very smart MB or DB, since obviously they know about the camera and have access to it. The cheater will get outed by that on its own.

You should just stick to your job and mind your own business.

NO! I don't monitor the nanny cam, we don't even have a nanny cam. I guess the PP thought that's how I knew, but I physically have seen the cheating going on....and it's like DB could care less that I know.

If you know, there is a good chance the MB knows, or that the DB doesn't care if the MB finds out (otherwise it would be hidden from you much better). Just mind your own business, and keep your eyes open for another position if it bothers you or you are concerned about your job security.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, get another job. If they don't care about their own kids, why should you? They certainly don't care about you either.

[Anonymous]

My MB is having an affair. none of my business.