A New Horizon- Please Read, and take a deep breath before responding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I didn't address the troll status. Which is as we know pretty ridiculous. But in the chance that they are real I want to address them as such. And I am sure they are bitter or resentful as a MB/nanny/Sahm or what have you to spend so much time trying to anger people. So trolls, this is for you too. Fix your situation, find happiness and stop trying to be destructive to others.

I am a nanny, as you may have guessed already. And I have never had a family or a child that would anger me to the point of some of the arguments that take place here. For new nannies and new MBs this forum is not painting the best picture for any of us. That is a big problem.

OP there is a whole thread that was created about you and many are talking about your pathetic attitude. LOL. The fact that you're making such a (negative) name for yourself on an anonymous website speaks volumes on the life/job/skills you lack. You're so miserable, resentful and bitter towards parents and "new" nannies to the point that you come on here to hate, rant and yap about nonsense on a daily basis. I almost feel bad... NOT LMAO!

I am going to guess that you, and the person above you did not read the entire original post.

[Anonymous]

OP is not comma lady. Her post was very well written and she made excellent points.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This forum is so nasty compared to the relationship I've had with any of my nanny families. Of course I'm not their parent, but the parents would never say I don't have a huge influence on their kid's lives. I'm not a nanny robot who does everything exactly like their parents. We are on the same page 90% of the time. I'm sure I do things that annoy them and there are things they do that I don't agree with. That's how the world works. We both flex without taking advantage of each other for the most part

+1

[Anonymous]

The shroud of anonymity reveals the very deep catty behaviour and insecurity from a lot of women.

[Anonymous]

I was looking at the old forum and compared it to the old old...This one gets way less traffic then the old one. I guess people got tired of being chased away by the negetivity. This forum can be helpful at times but its gets old every time someone tries to right something it has to turn sour.

[Anonymous]

I think that breaking this forum out seperately from the main section has made it much worse. Fewer people post here it seems from the fact that there seem to be common posters (like the nanny who on every thread about salary mentions she makes $25/hr as if that answers the question about what avg rates are).

OP, agree. I'm an MB and yes, it's a fair point that we should be more open-minded about input from nannies (in general) and less defensive about who's spending the most time and consequently one of the biggest roles in our kids lives.

[Anonymous]

OP here,

Glad to see that many of you can see the toxicity and desire more. The unfortunate thing is the worst personalities tend to be the loudest. Maybe we can kill with kindness and it will spread.