To all the posters on this thread: Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
To address all the posts that found it unusual that we are discussing a relationship that ended 30+ years ago, please note read the original post again while keeping the title in mind. To paraphrase my original post, I believe Larla asked me if I regretted selecting "quality" (i.e., a fulfilling long-term relationship) over "quantity" (i.e., a number of casual sexual relationships.) I did not advocate that quality is better than quantity; I only discussed why I made the selection that I did. With all the recent posts regarding the number of partners women have had over their lifetime, I thought that it would interesting to discuss given that I do not believe that their would have been as much interest if I had been a woman who did not have a varied sexual history during my college years because I was in love with a boyfriend. |