Slept Over at New Girlfriends..

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[Post New]08/18/2018 23:36
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Oh, and the box of condoms was likely open so she could carry a few with her, in case you went back to your house. O dons don’t magicslly jump out of the box into ones purse, you know.


Who are all these men relying on the women to supply their condoms for them? Why is she bringing condoms to your house? Don't you have any thoughts about STDs and birth control?? I get why she has them at her house just in case, but why didn't you have his own in his wallet?
[Post New]08/18/2018 23:45
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Anonymous
A woman who has her own place, supplies clothing and condoms and sex, and you are having what problem?
[Post New]08/19/2018 00:13
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A woman who has her own place, supplies clothing and condoms and sex, and you are having what problem?


Reality check right here OP^
[Post New]08/19/2018 00:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Def wouldn’t worry about the shirts. I wore my husband’s XL when I was pregnant and too big for mine and never gave them up even now 4 months pp (and back down to 105 lbs).


I still wear my husband's shirt to bed 6 YEARS after our child was born!
[Post New]08/19/2018 00:21
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Anonymous
You trust her, or you don't.
[Post New]08/19/2018 00:54
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman who has her own place, supplies clothing and condoms and sex, and you are having what problem?


Reality check right here OP^


+1!

Don’t sabotage a good thing with your insecurity! I had men’s t-shirts from a prior relationship that I still have to this day, and I’m married to someone else. I often wear oversized shirts to bed, it’s just comfy. I highly doubt she’d give you the shirt of someone else she’s currently dating!! And she’s being responsible with protection; she was ready to have sexual with you and wanted to be certain it would be possible because she’s not going to do it without protection. Who cares if the box was open?? She probably wasn’t a virgin before she met you two months ago. Did you count how many were missing, or something?

Now, if there are other reasons you feel uneasy or are picking up red flags then I would listen to your gut. It’s still early days and you’re getting to know each other. You can take it slow.
[Post New]08/19/2018 01:34
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Anonymous
This is a fifty/fifty situation.

Sure the man’s shirt could be her own....
Or something another man left at her house.

The condoms could have been left open for preparation for your “sleepover,” though it sounds like this wasn’t planned ahead for.
Who really knows??

Bottom line is to figure out here whether or not you trust her enough to not let stuff like this bother you.
Yes, not the easiest thing in the world to do - but necessary if you want to continue in this new relationship.
[Post New]08/19/2018 06:45
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Anonymous
Any woman who keeps available condoms is a keeper.
[Post New]08/19/2018 11:13
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MikeL
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Anonymous wrote:A woman who has her own place, supplies clothing and condoms and sex, and you are having what problem?

+1, like the other posters have said. She sounds good to me
[Post New]08/19/2018 11:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A woman who has her own place, supplies clothing and condoms and sex, and you are having what problem?


Lol!
[Post New]08/19/2018 14:05
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Anonymous
Shirt = normal. Brothers and exBFs. Not unusual at all.

If she was dating a guy for several months and they broke up just before you started dating, does she have to throw the open box of condoms away and start fresh. Are your feeling hurt because those condoms were bought with another in mind? Grow up.
[Post New]08/19/2018 14:59
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Anonymous
I have probably 10 men’s XL shirts that were random giveaways at events. A few from grad school, a few from alcohol distributors (I worked in the casino industry). When DH got fat, he started stealing MY shirts from my pj drawer.

Freak out if you want, but I’d drop you.
[Post New]08/19/2018 15:17
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Anonymous
OP you sound like my exhusband. It was hell. He was so controlling and insecure it destroyed all my self esteem. I hope she runs and fast!
[Post New]08/19/2018 15:21
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Anonymous
She is sleeping with a lot of guys. Run!
[Post New]08/19/2018 17:39
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Better than the time I was beginning to get hot and heavy with a woman til I pulled down her bedsheets and an empty condom wrapper was revealed. I wasn’t expecting a 30 year old virgin, but if she’d had sex with someone else more recently than she changed her bedsheets, I wanted nothing to do with her. I got out of there in less than two minutes.


OK yeah this is a bit much, ew
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