Sexual self-control?

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[Post New]01/03/2018 16:00
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Why do you think a guy who is indifferent to sex is "better" than a guy who consistently wants it?

Being a gentleman isn’t indifferent per se, it’s just not begging for it like you’re desperate.


He waits for her to invite him in. That has nothing to do with "being a gentleman" it just means he is passive: that is generally NOT a positive attribute especially for a male.
Conversely, if he (actively) invited himself in, that's not "begging for it" or "desperate".


Passive? You're nuts.
[Post New]01/03/2018 16:05
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the other guys do?

Baby its Cold Outside.


Hey, that's how I lure men into MY house.
[Post New]01/03/2018 16:14
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Anonymous
Countdown to OP getting bored and dumping this beta schmuck, 5... 4... 3... 2...
[Post New]01/03/2018 16:22
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why do you think a guy who is indifferent to sex is "better" than a guy who consistently wants it?

Being a gentleman isn’t indifferent per se, it’s just not begging for it like you’re desperate.


He waits for her to invite him in. That has nothing to do with "being a gentleman" it just means he is passive: that is generally NOT a positive attribute especially for a male.
Conversely, if he (actively) invited himself in, that's not "begging for it" or "desperate".


I'll take "How are women insanely impossible to please" for 200, Alex.

[Post New]01/03/2018 16:31
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why do you think a guy who is indifferent to sex is "better" than a guy who consistently wants it?

Being a gentleman isn’t indifferent per se, it’s just not begging for it like you’re desperate.


He waits for her to invite him in. That has nothing to do with "being a gentleman" it just means he is passive: that is generally NOT a positive attribute especially for a male.
Conversely, if he (actively) invited himself in, that's not "begging for it" or "desperate".


You have it backwards.
[Post New]01/03/2018 16:51
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A guy can’t win. He is polite, so he must not be into you. He asks to come inside, he’s pushy and desperate.

Ladies, what’s a man to do?


Be appropriately dominating in the bedroom, let me have all the control outside of it, be sexy while gushing about how sexy I am even if I just rolled out of bed and haven’t brushed my teeth or hair, and buy me nice presents that aren’t uncomfortably expensive but not too cheap and also show he put lots of thought into them. That’s just off the top of my head
[Post New]01/03/2018 17:03
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Anonymous
Upon breaking up with her his last girlfriend said she was considering calling the police to report that he pullled her hair and smacked her butt once when they were having sex; he’s probably putting himself in neutral because he’s concerned you’re a nutcase like she was.
[Post New]01/03/2018 17:17
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:He does what you want and you're complaining. Got it.


Typical unsatisfied feminist. Nothing makes them happy. If men pursue them than men are all rapists, if men don't pursue them than men are looser. What a bunch of entitled, narcissistic, and empty women. It will only get worse as they push men even further away.
[Post New]01/03/2018 17:38
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why do you think a guy who is indifferent to sex is "better" than a guy who consistently wants it?


You know ...sex is transactional. If the guy is indifferent about wanting sex, I will not get stuff from him. Only women can be indifferent to sex.
[Post New]01/03/2018 17:41
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HoCo333
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Anonymous wrote:Online porn has made it MUCH easier for men to go without sex. It's easier now to play it cool with a girlfriend when you know that everything fantasy imaginable is available online. I think men were pushier about sex a generation ago basically due to desperation.


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[Post New]01/03/2018 20:09
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Anonymous wrote:Not sure if this situation is weird, or if my expectations are off base.

I’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks, and while we’ve been intimate, he isn’t pushy. I mean, we kiss and it leads to sex, but he isn’t demanding. For example, he’s totally fine after a date walking me to my stoop and kissing me goodnight and not coming up. But if I invite him up, he comes up. We are both in our 40s.

I this weird or have I just been dating losers?


It's awful being with a gentleman. Dump him and find a drugged up biker.
[Post New]01/03/2018 20:17
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Online porn has made it MUCH easier for men to go without sex. It's easier now to play it cool with a girlfriend when you know that everything fantasy imaginable is available online. I think men were pushier about sex a generation ago basically due to desperation.

That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard.
[Post New]01/03/2018 20:20
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Anonymous
OP, maybe you're just not irresistible. He'll take it if it's offered but if not, he can do without you.
[Post New]01/03/2018 20:30
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Anonymous
HoCo333 wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Online porn has made it MUCH easier for men to go without sex. It's easier now to play it cool with a girlfriend when you know that everything fantasy imaginable is available online. I think men were pushier about sex a generation ago basically due to desperation.


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Yuck, if a guy can get more satisfaction from watching a computer screen than from being in bed with a woman then he has a problem. But whatever makes you guys happy!
[Post New]01/03/2018 21:43
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Anonymous
#metoo
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