My boyfriend read my journal
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Anonymous
Ha!! Yeah, this is such a DC-specific problem... |
Anonymous
Money. He is very rich |
Anonymous
| Trust is very important in a relationship OP. I would honestly be upset. I wish you the best in navigating this |
Anonymous
Change your mindset. You have everywhere to go. |
ddintysons
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Without snooping hard? Look, reading someone else's mail, journal, texts, etc. is breach of their privacy. The only difference is that the PPs (mostly women) inferred that bf was reading the gf's journal just to invade her privacy and for nothing more without ever hearing (from the bf) what he was looking for. If the post had been about a DW who found out her husband was cheating by reading his journal, nothing would be said. If you believe that a person has the right to read private messages (and writing in a journal is a private message to oneself) to uncover cheating, then say it. But mean it. Include every message in this domain. No one can hide behind "Some items re more private than others because they are more likely to provide evidence of cheating" and be honest. Maybe the gf worked at the NSA (or had made her phone and email unhackable) and there was no way the bf could ever find evidence she was cheating outside of the journal. Maybe she was pregnant with other man's baby and he wanted to know. All we have is the gf pissed her privacy was breached. If she had snooped on the bf's phone for any reason he could feel the same way. |