35/never married
When I go to bars it seems it's all 20 somethings. I'm a teacher so I'm typically surrounded by children and females all day. Ideas/suggestions/words of wisdom?! Thanks! ![]() |
Go online, that's where you will find them but there are many creeps, so you need to weed them out. |
Social activities and meetups.
If you're athletic, join a mixed sports league. If you like running, join a running club. If you like arts, go to meetups. If you like reading, join a book club. etc Bars are horrible if you're over 30. |
If you're a female online is great. If you're a male, the odds are against you, there are better choices. |
I met my husband on OkCupid, but that was a few years ago, so I'm sure other dating sites have taken over. Go on a lot of first dates, but keep your alcohol consumption in check (if that's an issue for you). I made a lot of mistakes in dating because I drank too much to get over shyness, but that just led to feeling "instant connections" that were totally false. |
"Great" if you don't mind the 300 creeps per 1 decent guy ratio. You'll get a lot of attention... but mostly from loser guys who spam every single woman because why not? |
Driving range |
Guy : there are many women with more than carry on baggage online let me assure you. |
I like the driving range idea.
Check out Smithsonian Associates. Many local events, some with extra mingling opportunities, such as receptions. Quality people, male and female, some actively on the prowl. |
I'm free this weekend.... |
Gross. |
A "quality" man ? Ah, you want a prince. Good luck with that. |
Volunteer work, political campaigns |
Online. |
Single woman here- online sucks! The weeding out gets old!!! |