Why is he still texting?
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Anonymous
| So what is extreme kink per dcum? Doggy style? |
Anonymous
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OP here. Ok, maybe I'm being a little naive and will stop responding, though as someone noted women have been socialized that not responding is rude!
He is into hardcore BDSM. Not my thing, dcum upbringing or otherwise! Which, again, I don't understand why he still texts- that is a gap that can't be breached... |
Anonymous
Because maybe he thinks you still responding to him means you might change your mnd and give bdsm a try. Maybe unlike you he's able to be friends with people with different sexual appetites. All of the above can be resolved by not responding if you have no interest whatsoever. Not that hard. Not that complicated. Can't stand women like you! |
sandmguy
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| Well, there is hardcore BDSM and then there is HARDCORE BDSM. Strangely, women are almost never scared off by what I am into. |
Anonymous
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You're obviously secretly into exploring this and are flattered by the attention. Anyone with half a brain who wasn't interested would have blocked him a long time ago, regardless of how "proper" your upbringing is w/r/t the rudeness of not responding.
Come on, you're lying to us and yourself. The really answer I want to know - WHY? |
Anonymous
Of course you're judging, as well you should. Grow up, OP, and stop being and idiot before you get yourself in real trouble. |
Anonymous
| Do you have a bf? Where did you meet? |
Anonymous
| you know, the fact that you haven't put up strong boundaries yet appeals to his kink. he sees you as someone who wants to please, doesn't want to rock the boat. |
Anonymous
| You don't have to be polite. Women stop this. You aren't interested so stop responding. |
Anonymous
Not all women just DCUM white women. |
Anonymous
| I think the OP really wants to get herself a taste of this mans kink. Yep, she wants it. |
Anonymous
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No, she doesn't.
OP's poor boundaries (which is the issue OP, please explore why you have trouble with boundaries) have nothing to do with what she wants sexually, and likely everything to do with her upbringing and/or our society's negative reaction to women who do set boundaries. See also the Cosby Defense of "she's a liar who wanted it". |
Anonymous
Not this DCUM white woman. |
Anonymous
| He keeps doing it because by responding, you encourage him. |
Anonymous
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Stop responding. Society might expect you to be polite but that doesn't mean pandering to annoying people; specific to this situation, and for your own safety, sanity, and independence, I suggest you work on your b*tch face and "f* off" delivery. Life is so much better when you feel comfortable telling men you don't want pursuing you to go away. It also makes it easier for them to know where you stand.
Is the above obvious? Yes, yes it is. So WHY are you really still responding? |