Suggestive txt?

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[Post New]02/03/2017 18:36
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:PP again. and DO NOT engage saying "Please stop" if she really is a stalker, it makes it SO much worse. Trust me. She made our lives horrible for over a year. Ignoring is best.


op--agree....it's unbelievable that a woman he doesn't want to have anything to do with, would do something like that....she clearly has low self esteem.
[Post New]02/03/2017 19:14
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP again. and DO NOT engage saying "Please stop" if she really is a stalker, it makes it SO much worse. Trust me. She made our lives horrible for over a year. Ignoring is best.


op--agree....it's unbelievable that a woman he doesn't want to have anything to do with, would do something like that....she clearly has low self esteem.


Sorry OP. You don't know that for sure. Why hasn't he blocked this woman yet? Why the inaction? Have you asked him?

And you really don't know if they talk or meet up in person. They work together in the SAME building!
[Post New]02/04/2017 01:37
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ZachF
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Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.


He does not have an iPhone.


In that case, it takes 4 seconds. Maybe 5. You can even get an app for that. Block her on the phone. Block her through your cellular carrier. Or, you know, he could just tell her to go away. What do you mean, should he tell her he is married. Why doesn't she know?
[Post New]02/04/2017 06:02
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Anonymous
He can crearly block the number.
[Post New]02/04/2017 06:06
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Anonymous
Omg OP. He is lying to you.

He is still seeing her on the sly. He is probably responding to her when you are not around, then deleting the evidence.
[Post New]02/04/2017 07:09
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Omg OP. He is lying to you.

He is still seeing her on the sly. He is probably responding to her when you are not around, then deleting the evidence.


Yeah, something is not right with this story. Did you discover the texts, and this was his story to you? That she was a scorned woman, or whatever?
Do you really believe that a random woman would be sending him graphic texts like that? If so, that's harassment and your DH should be reporting this to HR. It may be that her advances are unwanted now but something occurred between them in the past, don't you think? Otherwise his passivity is very odd.
[Post New]02/04/2017 07:24
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Omg OP. He is lying to you.

He is still seeing her on the sly. He is probably responding to her when you are not around, then deleting the evidence.


Yeah, something is not right with this story. Did you discover the texts, and this was his story to you? That she was a scorned woman, or whatever?
Do you really believe that a random woman would be sending him graphic texts like that? If so, that's harassment and your DH should be reporting this to HR. It may be that her advances are unwanted now but something occurred between them in the past, don't you think? Otherwise his passivity is very odd.


Op--working in the same building, but not for the same company. The work thing is just a coincidence and they have not crossed paths. He was very honest with me "so and so sent me inappropriate txt and I have not responded." Some women just don't give up I guess. He has not told her he was getting married, because it's clearly none of her business....the relationship been over for almost a year. He met her before he met me and ended things with her once we became more serious.
[Post New]02/04/2017 08:28
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Anonymous
OP - both you and your husband come off as so unbelievably passive.

So the way you tell it: explicit pictures of this woman's breasts or whatever are routinely popping up on your husband's phone and he says "Hey honey. Look. More tits." And then you sit there wondering "Hmm. Another photo. Well he's not doing anything wrong. It must be the crazy old flame. Too bad she doesn't stop."

And then lather, rinse, repeat.

If your husband lost his credit card and he keeps seeing unwanted charges made on it, would you just sit by and think "Oh look another unauthorized purchase by that poor immoral thief. Hmm. There's more $$ out the window. Should husband report the card stolen".

Good lord. Get this man to fess up and BLOCK.
[Post New]02/04/2017 08:31
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Omg OP. He is lying to you.

He is still seeing her on the sly. He is probably responding to her when you are not around, then deleting the evidence.


Yeah, something is not right with this story. Did you discover the texts, and this was his story to you? That she was a scorned woman, or whatever?
Do you really believe that a random woman would be sending him graphic texts like that? If so, that's harassment and your DH should be reporting this to HR. It may be that her advances are unwanted now but something occurred between them in the past, don't you think? Otherwise his passivity is very odd.


Op--working in the same building, but not for the same company. The work thing is just a coincidence and they have not crossed paths. He was very honest with me "so and so sent me inappropriate txt and I have not responded." Some women just don't give up I guess. He has not told her he was getting married, because it's clearly none of her business....the relationship been over for almost a year. He met her before he met me and ended things with her once we became more serious.


Your gullibility is incredible. I would bet your house not all of what you just wrote is true
[Post New]02/04/2017 09:42
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Omg OP. He is lying to you.

He is still seeing her on the sly. He is probably responding to her when you are not around, then deleting the evidence.


Yeah, something is not right with this story. Did you discover the texts, and this was his story to you? That she was a scorned woman, or whatever?
Do you really believe that a random woman would be sending him graphic texts like that? If so, that's harassment and your DH should be reporting this to HR. It may be that her advances are unwanted now but something occurred between them in the past, don't you think? Otherwise his passivity is very odd.


Op--working in the same building, but not for the same company. The work thing is just a coincidence and they have not crossed paths. He was very honest with me "so and so sent me inappropriate txt and I have not responded." Some women just don't give up I guess. He has not told her he was getting married, because it's clearly none of her business....the relationship been over for almost a year. He met her before he met me and ended things with her once we became more serious.


OH, now it makes sense! I didn't realize they had been involved, I must be thick.
It's good he ignores the texts but he needs to tell her he is married and she needs to stop.
Then he must block her.
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