Suggestive txt?
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Anonymous
| A former "scorned" lover keeps sending suggestive txt messages with pictures to my new husband. He is not responding to any of it, but it is extremely annoying. The woman crearly has no class, but just would not give up. Should I ask him to tell her that he is married now and to please stop or to just leave it alone? |
Anonymous
| He needs to tell her to stop and he should change his number. |
Anonymous
| can't he block the number? |
Anonymous
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I'd just say, "hey...she's pretty crazy and her texts are annoying. Would you mind blocking her number?"
If my DH didn't do that for me after I asked politely and without emotion, I think we'd have issues. |
Anonymous
| Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do. |
Anonymous
| If you have asked for him to block her and he hasn't = serious problem. I'm kind of surprised he hasn't offered to block her, and you might consider that there is a reason why. |
Anonymous
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He needs to block her number. Saying anything to her- even "I'm married leave me alone"- just reinforces her and she'll start sending even more.
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Anonymous
He does not have an iPhone. |
Anonymous
| Maybe he thinks blocking her will just escalate things. Would not want her to start coming around in person. |
Anonymous
| If for some reason there is no way to block the number, don't engage. I would never give a crazy the satisfaction of knowing that their craziness has hit the target. |
Anonymous
| Most phones allow blocking. This is what he should do. |
Anonymous
Would she even know, though? I thought if someone was blocked they wouldn't get any feedback. |
Anonymous
You can do it on most smart phones. |
Anonymous
OP--good point. I don't want her coming around. They do work in the same office building, but that would be too creepy and would equal to unwanted sexual advances. |
Anonymous
Keep us updated, OP, as you discover in months to come what's really going on with your husband. |