Suggestive txt?

[Anonymous]

Terrible advice. Did you know that outbursts in mental facilities decrease when ignored? Ignore, ignore, ignore. Any contact gives Ol' Crazy satisfaction. Have your husband put the texts in a separate folder without opening them. They may be useful as evidence later on if she tries to pull some Disclosure (expl) in the future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Terrible advice. Did you know that outbursts in mental facilities decrease when ignored? Ignore, ignore, ignore. Any contact gives Ol' Crazy satisfaction. Have your husband put the texts in a separate folder without opening them. They may be useful as evidence later on if she tries to pull some Disclosure (expl) in the future.

He has been ignoring her for the past 1.5 months, but keeping txts as evidence just in case.

[Anonymous]

Don't see the harm of him replying once to tell her to stop texting. Especially if these are suggestive.

You say though that they work in the same building? Well how do you know they're not talking in person?

[Anonymous]

Oh and pictures? Selfies?

If so that's just weird and bait to go further. You husband should step up to end this.

Like yesterday.

[Anonymous]

block her. If the phone doesn't allow, he still using a flip phone? the cell provider should be able to do it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.

He does not have an iPhone.

You can block on any phone, I have a windows phone and can block

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:block her. If the phone doesn't allow, he still using a flip phone? the cell provider should be able to do it

If it is an older phone you can go on to your account online and do it from there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A former "scorned" lover keeps sending suggestive txt messages with pictures to my new husband. He is not responding to any of it, but it is extremely annoying. The woman crearly has no class, but just would not give up. Should I ask him to tell her that he is married now and to please stop or to just leave it alone?

DH here: it would be easier to give you sensible advice if you could post a few of the suggestive pictures here so that we could better understand what you are dealing with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A former "scorned" lover keeps sending suggestive txt messages with pictures to my new husband. He is not responding to any of it, but it is extremely annoying. The woman crearly has no class, but just would not give up. Should I ask him to tell her that he is married now and to please stop or to just leave it alone?

DH here: it would be easier to give you sensible advice if you could post a few of the suggestive pictures here so that we could better understand what you are dealing with.

Certain exposed body parts-op

[Anonymous]

OP- assuming exposed body parts are not just her bare legs.

Explicit photos go beyond suggestive. This is so clearly over the top but it's just getting annoying?

The fact that she wasn't blocked after the first photo is just mind-boggling.

Or your husband is really getting off on these and won't admit it.

[Anonymous]

Block. My fiancé's ex is an attention whore and even though she is engaged to someone else, would keep sending selfies Ronny fiancé via Snapchat. Nothing suggestive and I'm sure they were sent to more than one person but I thought it was inappropriate. He never responded to her and he would open them right in front of me so I never worried about anything actually going on, but I still didn't like her doing it. I only had to ask once, and he removed her from Snapchat, and it hasn't been an issue since. She doesn't regular-text him so I didn't make him delete her actual number--he's still friends with her family and I am also friends with some of her family. If he didn't want to block her I don't know what I would have done but I'd have been unhappy. Thankfully, not a problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP- assuming exposed body parts are not just her bare legs.

Explicit photos go beyond suggestive. This is so clearly over the top but it's just getting annoying?

The fact that she wasn't blocked after the first photo is just mind-boggling.

Or your husband is really getting off on these and won't admit it.

Hmm.... I'm guessing he's loving the attention. Sure, honey, sorry she sent me a pic of her tits... What can I do?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he thinks blocking her will just escalate things. Would not want her to start coming around in person.

Would she even know, though? I thought if someone was blocked they wouldn't get any feedback.

When I blocked my husbands phone from an ex, she could still text him, but he couldn't respond. I wanted the oppisite, but thats what I got (maybe I did it wrong), but it did send a message (to him) saying he couldn't text her because the # was blocked. For all I know, the ex just thought he wasn't responding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP- assuming exposed body parts are not just her bare legs.

Explicit photos go beyond suggestive. This is so clearly over the top but it's just getting annoying?

The fact that she wasn't blocked after the first photo is just mind-boggling.

Or your husband is really getting off on these and won't admit it.

Hmm.... I'm guessing he's loving the attention. Sure, honey, sorry she sent me a pic of her tits... What can I do?

DH here: this is almost certainly true. Any man would.

[Anonymous]

PP again. and DO NOT engage saying "Please stop" if she really is a stalker, it makes it SO much worse. Trust me. She made our lives horrible for over a year. Ignoring is best.