To women - would you be open to an affair?

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[Post New]01/22/2013 11:21
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strongone
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Anonymous wrote:So for those women who are open to an affair, how do I broach the subject?


Ask me to lunch. Flirt with me. Act like you would on a date. Pick up the check.


Good advice! Any others...?
[Post New]01/22/2013 11:39
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Anonymous
Ugh, you sound like a needy loser, no thanks.
[Post New]01/22/2013 11:43
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strongone
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Anonymous wrote:Ugh, you sound like a needy loser, no thanks.


Thanks for the pre-rejection! Makes me honestly feel better to know I was rejected by a woman I wouldn't have wanted anyway due to her insufferably stiff upper lip! Dodged a bullet on that one...
[Post New]03/09/2013 06:41
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Anonymous
strongone wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So for those women who are open to an affair, how do I broach the subject?


Ask me to lunch. Flirt with me. Act like you would on a date. Pick up the check.


Good advice! Any others...?


Talk about what a miserable b your wifey is.
[Post New]03/09/2013 18:54
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
strongone wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So for those women who are open to an affair, how do I broach the subject?


Ask me to lunch. Flirt with me. Act like you would on a date. Pick up the check.


Good advice! Any others...?


Talk about what a miserable b your wifey is.


Had a guy do all the above. Seriously lost all respect for him. He was married with two, young, beautiful children. I would never go there and do that to another woman and her family. I wonder if she knows what a SOB she is married to?
[Post New]03/09/2013 19:43
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
strongone wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So for those women who are open to an affair, how do I broach the subject?


Ask me to lunch. Flirt with me. Act like you would on a date. Pick up the check.


Good advice! Any others...?


Talk about what a miserable b your wifey is.


Had a guy do all the above. Seriously lost all respect for him. He was married with two, young, beautiful children. I would never go there and do that to another woman and her family. I wonder if she knows what a SOB she is married to?


I agree.
[Post New]03/09/2013 22:46
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Anonymous
Nope. Wouldn't cheat on a partner and I won't be the other woman.

If you're that miserable, leave. But it's disrespectful and cowardly to cheat.
[Post New]03/09/2013 22:49
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't think so. It's really disrespectful and if I was going down that road, I think I'd prefer to separate and date other people. I think affairs are escapes and they mask bigger issues, both in yourself and in the marriage.

It's making a bad situation worse.

That said, my DH's affair was a great catalyst for us. Most painful thing I've ever confronted, but going through it changed our marriage and definitely woke DH up to the fact that he was becoming a person he wasn't proud of. People only have so much energy, and affairs require a lot of energy. It means you are taking away from your spouse and family. And marriage and raising kids is hard enough. For my DH, it seemed like a solution/escape/numbing in the short term but caused him a lot of humiliation and shame in the long term.


So, you were doormat and remained married to him?
[Post New]03/09/2013 23:20
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Anonymous
Be flirty with the woman. Don't mention your wife/kids too much, but when you do, don't put them down. For me, I explain I love my wife and she's a great mother, while at the same time being flirty.
[Post New]03/10/2013 01:19
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Anonymous
Seriously, I want nothing to do with taking care of yet another man's physical or emotional needs.One is enough work. So no, I would not be open. But I can tell you that if I somehow wound up in the situation, I would be terribly inattentive to your needs and desires. One wrong move, one drink I would have to pay for, one dumb thing you say, one sport I must feign interest in, the one time I want to see you and you are not there and I have to compromise or come second... I am out. So no. I wouldn't even go down that path of having to compromise who I am - never mind my morals - for one more person in mal
[Post New]03/10/2013 01:20
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Anonymous
*in my life
[Post New]03/10/2013 07:18
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Anonymous
m here. I have thought about seeking other companionship. Someone less critical. The problem is I do not want my 10 yo daughter to lose respect for me. She currently has minimal respect for my wife, but does listen/respect me. Also, I have medical issues, and do require periodic intense care.


So if you decide to sleep with me, realize, that,1) my wife is unstable and I do not know how she will react, 2) my daughter's needs come first, and 3) I have health issues that come with me....I will probably have more surgeries with long recoveries and statically have a low chance of surviving more than three years.

On the plus side, I am witty, intelligent, and can appear to listen.

If that is ok, lets meet.

This is me. Every man has similar issues (maybe not the medical issues).
[Post New]03/10/2013 09:03
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Be flirty with the woman. Don't mention your wife/kids too much, but when you do, don't put them down. For me, I explain I love my wife and she's a great mother, while at the same time being flirty.


Yeah, but do you get some extra action? Or do you just become known as That Guy, eyes rolling, smirk induced.
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