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Anonymous wrote:My DC is an alum. Sadly, when we think of Beauvoir, Eric T, the homicidal Cathedral police officer, and his ex-lover, a first grade teacher at the school come to mind. So much going on right under her nose.

End of that year, was a better time to resign. I guess the goal was to hit the 20-year retirement mark.

This is completely unfair. Our child was at the school at the time and knew all 3 individuals of these individuals. Paula handled it just fine. I know many people kept asking the school for info on these events, but these events were being investigated by the police. And police investigations take time, and, for law enforcement reasons, the school was not and should not have been kept updated on every bit of info. In terms of Eric T, B did exactly what PennState did not do. B reported it immediately to the police, and allowed the police to handle it from there.

Well...didn't she tell this same Cathedral police officer who later killed the first grade teacher to escort Eric T off the grounds? How many years has Eric been on the run since that decision was made? I guess this is what you mean by her handling it just fine.

yes, one of the many security guards hired by the Episcopal Cathedral Foundation that oversees all schools( not specifically hired by the Beauvoir Head) passed a security back ground check in that he had no criminal record in all his years as an NYC police officer. He did, unfortunately, develop an obsessive relationship with another adult he met at work. As a security officer at the school he was warm, kind and welcoming. His character, like all of ours, was not one dimensional. Had both returned to the school in the fall and a restraining order was in place by the teacher against the security guard, the school would have had to act accordingly. Time and events intervened and the school was never a part of any procedural event.

Your seizing on something that happened 4 years ago when the Head was on sabatical and bringing it up in this context, suggests that you have an AX to grind and, your choice to complain anon in a public forum in which the Head is named is cowardly. State your full name please and stand behind your words or don't post. My guess is that you will not meet this challenge. Odd then, that in your post you accuse others of not rising to theirs.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DC is an alum. Sadly, when we think of Beauvoir, Eric T, the homicidal Cathedral police officer, and his ex-lover, a first grade teacher at the school come to mind. So much going on right under her nose.

End of that year, was a better time to resign. I guess the goal was to hit the 20-year retirement mark.

This is completely unfair. Our child was at the school at the time and knew all 3 individuals of these individuals. Paula handled it just fine. I know many people kept asking the school for info on these events, but these events were being investigated by the police. And police investigations take time, and, for law enforcement reasons, the school was not and should not have been kept updated on every bit of info. In terms of Eric T, B did exactly what PennState did not do. B reported it immediately to the police, and allowed the police to handle it from there.

Well...didn't she tell this same Cathedral police officer who later killed the first grade teacher to escort Eric T off the grounds? How many years has Eric been on the run since that decision was made? I guess this is what you mean by her handling it just fine.

yes, one of the many security guards hired by the Episcopal Cathedral Foundation that oversees all schools( not specifically hired by the Beauvoir Head) passed a security back ground check in that he had no criminal record in all his years as an NYC police officer. He did, unfortunately, develop an obsessive relationship with another adult he met at work. As a security officer at the school he was warm, kind and welcoming. His character, like all of ours, was not one dimensional. Had both returned to the school in the fall and a restraining order was in place by the teacher against the security guard, the school would have had to act accordingly. Time and events intervened and the school was never a part of any procedural event.

Your seizing on something that happened 4 years ago when the Head was on sabatical and bringing it up in this context, suggests that you have an AX to grind and, your choice to complain anon in a public forum in which the Head is named is cowardly. State your full name please and stand behind your words or don't post. My guess is that you will not meet this challenge. Odd then, that in your post you accuse others of not rising to theirs.

Anonymous wrote:Dear Jeff,
The time has come to call individuals to account for their irresponsibility. Ms. X is clearly a repeated violator of your restrictions and has been for 4 years, including today despite your warnings. She should be banned from accessing this site to defame individuals by name or title.

Anonymous wrote:When you really like something, its not hard to see why families might be sad.

Complaining about how a school delivers news, via email, as parents who spend lots of time and money at the school is also valid.

This stuff about people should have known, is not true for new families.

Paula we will miss you.

Anonymous wrote:there is also not some huge cathedral police force. some PP made it seem like this loony was one of many. He was as a different PP said, the one with the most familiar face at Beauvoir. And to be honest, he should have known better when escorting Toth off the grounds, but was not told any details by Beauvoir.

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Anonymous wrote:there is also not some huge cathedral police force. some PP made it seem like this loony was one of many. He was as a different PP said, the one with the most familiar face at Beauvoir. And to be honest, he should have known better when escorting Toth off the grounds, but was not told any details by Beauvoir.

The security guards are vetted through the PECF and assigned by them to either Beauvoir, NCS or STA. I saw the officer that you are describing everyday. He was always warm, friendly and gracious. There was no volatility, moodiness or temper there that I ever witnessed. You seem to want to reduce this man's whole life to one dimension. Life is more complex than that as are people. To their credit, the teachers were deeply saddened by both losses with many feeling badly that they did not know that the security officer that they saw everyday was struggling internally to such a degree and they were not given opportunity to help because they did not know.
Everyone reading this , please know that that alone tells you what kind of place Beauvoir is.