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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

If you're going to buy a fantasy, I'd buy a nicer one. $20 lingerie looks cheap, and fits terribly, regardless of how fit you are. Some people enjoy feeling cheap, and if that's what you/your partner are into, I'm not gonna knock it. But if you're putting on a surprise, buy something nice.

https://www.usagentprovocateur.com/collections/lingerie-playsuits-women-c-10_13.html?Z2VuZGVyPTE= (a variety of styles/moods/options, many on sale)
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/in-bloom-by-jonquil-plunge-neck-lace-thong-teddy/5319504
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/rya-collection-darling-sheer-lace-robe/5507970 + any nice bra/panty set (bonus for contrasting color and open-gusset panties)

A massage is nice, but a sensory kit is more fun, as is the power exchange of teasing. You don't have to tie him up (unless you want to), but a simple blindfold and a few tactile options (fuzzy, silky, warm/cold, gently scratchy) is usually great for putting someone in their body and getting them warmed up. Doesn't have to be store-bought (though there are kits, candles that melt wax at body-safe temps, etc.); you've probably got pleasant sensory objects in your home already. If you're both on the shy/vanilla side of things, this can even be a game where you reveal what the items were after you're done playing.

If the fantasy is "i wanted to please you", you have to know pleasure to give pleasure. Make sure whatever you're buying/doing does it for you, first. That's always hot. Turned on women do it for most men.

I agree with this poster... the sexiest lingerie is NICE lingerie.

I also love that OP used the term "sexy bed outfit" instead of lingerie. I want to say we are living in Idiocracy in a not-mean way, it's just what I thought of when I saw the term.

Anonymous wrote:My DH would not like any of these. He prefers nicer higher quality pieces.

I don’t understand the amazon only mentality for this there are stores you can go to locally to buy lingerie and take home today, even the role play outfits you showed.

Anonymous wrote:My DH would not like any of these. He prefers nicer higher quality pieces.

I don’t understand the amazon only mentality for this there are stores you can go to locally to buy lingerie and take home today, even the role play outfits you showed.

Anonymous wrote:Update!!
So I randomly had to be at the mall yesterday anyway for an errand so I decided to pop into Victoria’s Secret and just see what was available. I found something cute and I couldn’t resist any longer. I went ahead and put it on and when he came home late from his work dinner, I was ready for him!

It was a HUGE hit! He loves it and was really turned on. We had a lot of fun and both of us are in great moods today I have more surprises this weekend so I feel like this was a winner all around. Thanks!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH would not like any of these. He prefers nicer higher quality pieces.

I don’t understand the amazon only mentality for this there are stores you can go to locally to buy lingerie and take home today, even the role play outfits you showed.

I really don't understand the mentality that would make you trash what turns someone else on. The other poster said it wasn't her jam either but she gave great suggestions not just shade.

Anonymous wrote:I love the update, OP! I have two ideas: (1) new toys can be fun. It’s been a bit, but my husband and I have had fun shopping for toys together.

(2) twenty years ago when we met I dressed in a dress / stocking / heels when we went out to dinner for a special occasion. Unbeknownst to him I’d tied bows in various places (one on my wrist that was visible, but some on my thighs, toes etc). I told him I was his present but he had to find all the bows and unwrap me first. It was a fun night

Anonymous wrote:Update!!
So I randomly had to be at the mall yesterday anyway for an errand so I decided to pop into Victoria’s Secret and just see what was available. I found something cute and I couldn’t resist any longer. I went ahead and put it on and when he came home late from his work dinner, I was ready for him!

It was a HUGE hit! He loves it and was really turned on. We had a lot of fun and both of us are in great moods today I have more surprises this weekend so I feel like this was a winner all around. Thanks!

Anonymous wrote:Girl, go to La Perla. You are too good for polyester from Amazon.