Sexy bed outfit advice
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Anonymous
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I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.
I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing? https://a.co/d/82SgTzu https://a.co/d/6zEssYH https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH |
Anonymous
| This just reminds me of the SATC episode where Charlotte was trying to spice things up with Trey and Carrie told her that she could go about that without buying flammable underwear. Good lord. |
Anonymous
| DH would hate any role playing type outfit (school girl, maid, etc). I have a set like option 2 and he likes it. His personal preference is something looser so that he can move around the cups so my boobs are bare. But honestly, he's always said he prefers me naked vs in lingerie. |
Anonymous
Oh no! Haven’t seen that. So you’re saying, embarrassing right?! Any better ideas?! 
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Anonymous
Number two At this point you must know what catches his eye, do that but just do more of it. Anything new will have the desired effect, the highest heels you can tolerate, stockings, slutty outfits, body stockings etc it doesn’t really matter as long as it’s something we haven’t seen before. |
Anonymous
1 and 2 for the no-brainer win. 3 is also great but it just seems to require a bit more than dressing up - perhaps a bit of role playing too. My DW has a drawer full of lingerie but rarely (almost never) wears any of it - many of the pieces she bought before we met so she must have enjoyed wearing it at some point in her life. |
Anonymous
| Just one guy here, but #2 is the clear winner. Also, I would care about what you wear over the lingerie. Ideally something suggestive but not slutty, with layers, zippers, buttons, etc. -- the more I want to get the clothes off but the longer it takes to do so, the hungrier I am by the end. |
Anonymous
| Another guy here definitely #2. I wish I had a wife like you that cares this much. And I hope he appreciates you in return. Enjoy your romps lol some of us are stuck with unappreciative partners. |
Anonymous
| So I am the only one surprised that people actuallY clicked on the links? |
Anonymous
| Sorry, they are just Amazon as I need something to get here soon! I guess that did seem shady. Thanks to the posters, I guess the garter belt stockings thing is sexier. I normally don’t wear lingerie so I have no idea what his preference is? I’m usually in pj bottoms and an old shirt! |
Anonymous
| Doesn't that put a lot of pressure on him? Maybe just pack some oils and toys is the situation arises and wear a pretty but normal nightgown. |
Anonymous
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male 51 yo
number 2 |
Anonymous
Yep! I've clicked on the links now, knowing it is going to amazon and at least a few other people have done so and haven't been harmed. |
Anonymous
| Great idea, OP! I agree you can’t go wrong with number 2. Have fun! |
Anonymous
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I have these and my BF LOVES them:
https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/panties-catalog/1122551600?choice=63DA&genericId=11225516&limit=45&resultPosition=5&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=Leather&categoryTwo=new%20markdown I also have the coordinating bra that has an attached collar. I wear it with tall black boots and it looks very sexy (leaning towards slutty). |