Sexy bed outfit advice

[Anonymous]

https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/panties-catalog/5000004903?brand=vs&collectionId=a597c921-d6c9-4c12-acde-081151e39e56&limit=180&orderBy=REC&priceType=regular&productId=c58d060f-4824-4c82-a2b0-0accb1bca2d7&stackId=b0921db5-e4a8-44d3-bd9b-9502e31b99b4&genericId=11215847&choice=95D1&product_position=10&stack_position=1&dataSource=manual-collection&categoryOne=top%20rated

[Anonymous]

https://www.fredericks.com/products/fredericks-of-hollywood-luella-backless-lace-hipster-black

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.fredericks.com/products/fredericks-of-hollywood-luella-backless-lace-hipster-black

NP. I just so happen to have this one and it is a true winner. Every. Time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.fredericks.com/products/fredericks-of-hollywood-luella-backless-lace-hipster-black

NP. I just so happen to have this one and it is a true winner. Every. Time.

Same. Great choice!

[Anonymous]

Ooh wow! Even on the larger model, that is hot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ooh wow! Even on the larger model, that is hot!

Mmm hmm. These usually get pulled to the side pretty quickly. Highly recommend.

[Anonymous]

I’m a dude and don’t get the sexiness of multi piece “outfits.” I’d rather just see sex partner in a thong and tee shirt.

[Anonymous]

Try Honey Burdette. Expensive, but hot.

[Anonymous]

Number 1 and 3 look like Halloween outfits

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Try Honey Burdette. Expensive, but hot.

That is my go to brand for daily wear. Very nice products and great customer service.

[Anonymous]

Guy here - all my wife needs to do is drop the robe and climb into bed. No extras required!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

I do not know if dressing up after a long absence of sex relations with your husband will do the trick. Specially if you do not know what attractions your husband has. I could see this being very awkward. The question I have is does he still see you as someone who is available? You might put on the outfit and he could just go to sleep because that is what you all do- ie he does not think sex is possible so has given up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

I do not know if dressing up after a long absence of sex relations with your husband will do the trick. Specially if you do not know what attractions your husband has. I could see this being very awkward. The question I have is does he still see you as someone who is available? You might put on the outfit and he could just go to sleep because that is what you all do- ie he does not think sex is possible so has given up?

I mean she said it’s been a dry MONTH - it’s not like they’ve gone years without sex. This is common in long married couples with kids and not a reason to just throw in the towel LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

I do not know if dressing up after a long absence of sex relations with your husband will do the trick. Specially if you do not know what attractions your husband has. I could see this being very awkward. The question I have is does he still see you as someone who is available? You might put on the outfit and he could just go to sleep because that is what you all do- ie he does not think sex is possible so has given up?

OP already updated that her husband loved her surprise so your “worries” are unnecessary. Read the entire thread next time.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, OP here. It was wildly successful! Can report two nights in a row of good times. We just needed a jump start and reset. I could have probably just been naked under the bed and said “surprise” too but sometimes it’s fun to try something new and let him know I still want to get down and I haven’t been ignoring our sexual connection.