My wife had an affair, but I’m staying with her.

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[Post New]02/02/2024 17:32
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Anonymous
People will think you’re a simp
[Post New]02/02/2024 20:09
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dude, everybody freaks out on here about affairs. This is going to piss some people off, but get over it. Affairs are honestly not that big of a deal. People have made it a big deal in their heads when it's really not. Hell, people in France have lovers and it's widely accepted.


People in France get just as upset to learn about betrayal in a marriage.

This stupid glorification of French movies and folklore is ridiculous. Plus: this is America.

+1. I don't know why people make this assumption.
[Post New]02/02/2024 20:20
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here, what people are forgetting is that I believe she is a wonderful person that made a mistake. A mistake that I will try to forgive.

For me to forgive, I need to feel less holy. Having a fling is my way of doing that.


Does she have a sister?
[Post New]02/02/2024 20:21
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, me same exact boat but I'm the wife. Wanna be my fling? The way I see it, I was faithful as hell for 15 years. He's the one that unilaterally changed the terms, boundaries, and standards of our marriage.

Are you staying with him?
[Post New]02/02/2024 22:58
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Anonymous
You are fooling yourself if you honestly believe that just “a few flings” are all that is needed to reduce your pain.

In fact, by doing so things just may get worse.

The best thing you can do for yourself is spend some time apart from your wife if at all possible.
Try to focus on yourself & try to figure out if you can accept this new normal.

Because after an affair - the marriage dynamic will now have new dynamics.
[Post New]02/03/2024 03:13
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Anonymous
I wasn't married at the time, but a revenge affair certainly helped me move on. I'm a woman fyi.
[Post New]02/03/2024 10:37
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, me same exact boat but I'm the wife. Wanna be my fling? The way I see it, I was faithful as hell for 15 years. He's the one that unilaterally changed the terms, boundaries, and standards of our marriage.



OP here, let’s do it. DM me.
[Post New]02/03/2024 13:41
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Anonymous
Your wife is a slut and is probably still getting D from other men. You need to get tested.
[Post New]02/03/2024 14:56
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Anonymous
You need to create an account so women can contact you. I'm interested as well!!
[Post New]02/03/2024 15:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You need to create an account so women can contact you. I'm interested as well!!


Just did. Hit me up
[Post New]02/03/2024 15:36
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Anonymous
Now post from the account you're still posting as anonymous
[Post New]02/03/2024 15:39
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Anonymous
Some dude(s) is railing the F out of your wife right now…
[Post New]02/03/2024 15:47
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Jayson1
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Anonymous wrote:You need to create an account so women can contact you. I'm interested as well!!


Hie me up!
[Post New]02/03/2024 15:49
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Jayson1
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Anonymous wrote:You need to create an account so women can contact you. I'm interested as well!!



Hit me up
[Post New]02/04/2024 14:42
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Anonymous
The affairs made me grossed out by sex. I can barely find interest in someone I'd like much less want to have some revenge affairs. If you don't like someone doing it to you why would you be turned on by doing it to someone else? I'd rather take a vacation to an island.
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