My mom was pretty upset as well when I told her that I wanted her to wait a week or so until she came out. She was upset at first (and is still secretly hoping I will change my mind I'm sure!) but once I framed it that I will need her more once my husband returns to work and it would allow her with more time with the baby she is beginning to come around. I have also asked her to come out to help shortly before the baby is born (I'm 34 weeks now) to help me "get ready." I am saving small tasks for her like putting the finishing touches on the nursery, and any last minute shopping, etc. Try to make your mom feel more included but don't give in!
I am looking for a pediatrician in the Olney, MD area; does anyone have a good recommendation? One recommendation I have had is Dr. Victoria Lee on Prince Philip Dr.