I am a current WES parent and purposefully logged in to DCUM because I am not a shy one nor want to hide behind "anonymous". (God forbid someone call me a "sockpuppet"! I might cry for a week!)
My son is attending his third year at WES and continues to have a wonderful experience. It has been a great match for him and our family. His personality has flourished, he has learned so much and "found his groove".
WES is a superb Episcopal school that excels in its ability to not only welcome, but also embrace, its mission of diversity. This idea of "merging" or such with another school would likely water down or demolish that lovely spirit which has been critical to our family. WES is WES - it isn't another place or a Lego piece to be mashed into some other construction.
Our DS is in an environment in which he sees himself as different but also part of a wider society. In a world in which adults or children can, unfortunately, be sometimes unkind to non-Christians - he has NEVER had this experience at school. I can't imagine that happening at WES! If anything, it has been an ideal environment for him to be different. At any time when we asked for some religious accomodation - we got it without questioning our choices or any negativity. Frankly put, the mission of diversity and inclusion is well implemented from my point of view.
When a child is young - learning is important. (Oh how many high frequency words can we learn!) But having a safe haven from the world to grow and be happy is what will someday be an important building block in him becoming an caring, compassionate, sensible, (and a million other characteristics) adult!