I am very saddened this evening as I beleive that I found evidence of my husband possibly being a homosexual. I found a folder with about 50 or so pictures of men in underwear. The pictures were printed out on two separat days -- about two weeks apart. They were practically under the bed in a corner in the guest room.

When i confronted him he stated that since we were having problems with sex -- getting erection-- he wanted to check to see if part of the problem is whether he was attracted to men. I think this is unquestionable evidence. I dont find many straight men who would print out pictures of men and test to see whether they are aroused by it.

I beleive this is something that I cannot ignore. He has been pleading to me that it was a one time thing -- but how does he explain printing out pictures in a two-week window?

I dont want to be McGrevy's wife who ignored warning signs. We have been married for 7 yrs and togetehr for about 10.

I intend to get a divorce lawyer as soon as possible. We were even going through IVF to have kids. I dont plan to continue with the IVF. I dont know if I am acting too quickly. Could any of you ignore something like this?