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Anonymous wrote:I don't have time to read five pages of posts so forgive me that I am probably repeating everyone.
But YES it is a huge red flag! and honestly it is a bit of a red flag about the OP, assuming she is not a troll, that she would even ask that!
I thought the OP is male, a guy?
Men still being expected to make the first move and Court women and be the initiators and be the ones to approach women is nothing new and I don't see that ever changing
Anonymous wrote:I’ve been dating this guy for close to two years. Recently, rediscovered cycling and now goes out on rides four days a week, including about 2 hours each Saturday and Sunday. He’s up an out by 6 am and usually done by 10. It’s become a big part of his social life. He was new to the area when we met and didn’t know too many people. I am jealous a bit that he found a physical outlet he really likes, and wish I could also could find such a passion. I don’t know where I’m going with this. Is four hours on a weekend too much?
I assume you are both in your 20s