The funny thing is--OP I totally agree with you and get the humor you are conveying--Not to be totally annoying but ironically when I wrote the ad to find my current part-time person, she literally said to me-you mentioned how good-natured and friendly your baby was but I can't believe how accurate you were- He does Cry hysterically when I leave the room now though (9months) but in general is an easy baby

Most of the time when this used to happen to me (my son is 9 months and it hasn't happened since he was alot younger) I was not in a safe place to pull over (like 95) DO NOT PULL OVER FOR THIS! (unless it's an emergency) I know people who got killed being in the shoulder--anyway-I have a lullabye CD that my friend got me at target-I can't remember the name but it works like magic! it might even be called lullabye magic or something! I normally used to stay calm and think of my son talking me as an older person saying-it's fine-I'm fine-this is not worth getting into an accident over-I would rather you didn't stop than have a problem--and that helped!(hope you don't think I'm crazy!)

I'm sure that this has been discussed before but I'm new to the forum so wanted to get a fresh opinion. I am relatively healthy but overweight and I'm nervous about 1) health risks for another child that would come when I was 40 or later 2)financial strains-which we already feel with our normal bills and 1 child 2) will this be a strain on our marriage 3) life seems relatively easy with one--

at the same time-the thought of never being pregnant again is sad-I loved being at the hosital when they brought the baby to me--breast-feeding again, etc. I can't wrap my head around taking care of two though-Help! anyone who is in this boat with any suggestions or opinions--or anyone who decided to have another or not-love to hear your take--worst case scenario, etc.