It sounds like you are so disappointed with marriage. I can sure understand why when you describe the loneliness you're feeling. What's your greatest wish for your marriage? Do you wish to feel loved, not just physically, but emotionally? Do you feel marriage is best when two people are completely compatible? Since there's no perfect marriage, I believe opposites do attract and that each can help the other by their strengths to help the other’s weaknesses. It sounds like you're very intelligent and capable. I believe your husband has capabilities that you don’t have. It’s great that you're nice to each other, I believe there is much hope for your marriage and that its completely possible to fall in love again with the man you married ten years ago and most of all for him to grow deeply in love with you! It happened for me. I know that Focus On The Family has free licensed councelors you can simply call up… for help 1-800-A-Family. Please keep in touch, I care about you