Anonymous wrote:

RopeNhealer wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive and fit DW. I have expressed nicely and angrily my frustration. Changes? None. I get rebuffed daily.

My new years resolution is to move on emotionally and physically.

In the meantime I'm taking action to up my outward appearance -just for me. If something good or physical happens as a result-bonus.

If another M finds me appealing and something happens, it won't be because I didn't communicate, beg, plead, yell about my dismay in my marriage to my partner.

I am in a similar situation. Very frustrating. Have you considered looking for an AP?

I have considered. Not sure where to begin. I go to the whole foods in Fairfax and look around. Many nice looking older guys.I've met done guys married and divorced and dongle at holiday parties. All know I'm married, some know DH,others don't know him at all. I am hesitant to use the internet sites. I just want to bump into someone on metro, Starbucks or Whole Foods and just connect.

Anonymous wrote:Attractive and fit DW. I have expressed nicely and angrily my frustration. Changes? None. I get rebuffed daily.

My new years resolution is to move on emotionally and physically.

In the meantime I'm taking action to up my outward appearance -just for me. If something good or physical happens as a result-bonus.

If another M finds me appealing and something happens, it won't be because I didn't communicate, beg, plead, yell about my dismay in my marriage to my partner.