Anonymous wrote:I attended my 5 year old DS class event. Everybody seemed to enjoy the fun, but at some point, there was this little classmate who, with a lowed voice, told my DS:" hey X, I saw your mom's booties"!!!! I was shocked because I was wearing work clothes with nothing showing!
DS told him that it is not nice to talk that way and headed to his teacher to complain.
The teacher looked at DS with a big exclamation mark on her face and asked him:" so what's wrong with that? tell me what's wrong with that?!!!!!"
DS had tears in his eyes and couldn't answer. At that moment, I wished I was never put in such situation. I held my son's little hand and whispered in his ears that I love him and that I am there for him!! I know I was weak but I couldn't do much!!
The teacher stepped a few steps away, and my DS asked me if his teacher was right, the she quickly turned and said to him:" of course I am right, what do you think?"????????
I am really not sure who was right or wrong. I always teach my DS to never disrespect, hurt feelings or try to be bad to others.
The teacher sounds like an impatient jerk. Even if she did think there was nothing "wrong" with the comment (I disagree, it was inappropriate) there was no need for her to snap at your son. It's not this one incident that is bothersome, but it's the way the teacher interacts with these 5 year olds that is the problem. She doesn't sound very nurturing.
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