He likes what he does, but he hates that he has too much caseloads. He doesn't want to work for the government. He feels that he doesn't get any support from me. I have to admit that I complain about his work hours. We talk a lot, but lately he prefers not to talk about this situation anymore. He said if I am not happy then maybe we should divorce. I know that deeply he doesn't mean to. He gets angry easily and he is frustrated about his job a lot. He thinks that other wives are not complaining about their husbands.

I don't have time to do anything except later in the evenings after putting kids to bed. I always have to be available for him when he has to work on the weekends. And even he is not working on the weekends, he constantly looks at his phone all the times.

We have been married for 10 years and my husband always works very long hours. He is a litigator and works for a small law firm. He has ton of caseloads and he makes the same amount of money as fed gov employees. For the past year, he has been working at the office very late (sometimes till midnight). We have small kids and I also work full time. Many times, I feel so lonely and I want him to be home more. He said he doesn't have a choice because this is his job. He told me that he is not happy with his work and he does not like that I complain about his situation as well. I feel so tired by the end of the day after getting back home and having to do most of the works. I want him to appreciate me more. Is it wrong that I feel this way? I want to hear what other moms/wives do if you have kind of similar situation.