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Anonymous wrote:I’ve talked to my husband multiple times about how I don’t want him to vape his pot around the baby. He’ll stop for a few days, then start right back up again. He doesn’t believe it harms the baby. “It’s just water vapor!” he claims. But when he vapes there’s a strong smell in the room.
I’m really worried for my baby, and for my relationship. To be honest, this isn’t a deal breaking behavior, but it makes me so angry.
Right now he’s moping around, doing that “I’m angry at you” scowl, all because I confronted him again when he was vaping in our living room right next to where our baby was playing.
I’m not being unreasonable here, right????
The fact that he's not respecting your wishes around your child is deal breaking behavior for a lot of people. Vaping may be safer than cigarettes, but there just hasn't been enough studies of the long-term health ramifications. Not to mention is that it is not "just water vapor." There is nicotine in the solution and not all of it is ingested when you inhale.
Anonymous wrote:My husband shuts down when asked questions and always when asked about something he is responsible for. He has a lifetime of avoidance due to his ADD.
And a built in excuse for his behavior isn't going to help him.
Man, lots of unhealthy relationship comments here. Scary. My DW and I have been trying to lose together. I've lost a LOT more than her and I can tell it bothers her that she's not losing as much, but she encourages me at every turn. If anything my libido is going up with every pound I've lost and I make a point of expressing my physical attraction to her as often as I can.