Anonymous wrote:I would have my husband start by gently suggesting to FIL that he significantly cut back his babysitting hours. If FIL is reluctant to do that your husband should approach his sister (and any other siblings using FIL's services) about cutting dad loose. She's got a very sweet deal; what she chooses to do will say loads about her character.
I absolutely agree with you. As the son, your husband should take the initiative to solve this problem and talk to his sister about what is right and wrong. After all your FIL is his father and he must have to do something.