Invite over a FWB/stranger for good, unclean fun. That's the first hour and a half. Spend the last 30 tidying up so no one knows.

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Anonymous wrote:5. I'm constantly frustrated with the lack of him initiating sex,
lack of taking charge/having an opinion. Married 11 yrs. he knows I'm unhappy. He is happy. Probably a solid 9. He just has no drive for sex, affection, closeness, etc-- he "can't" turn it on.

I hear you. married 5 years, hard for her to turn it on like I can.

Antoine, what do you think your DW's response would be to her happiness level with you?

Gonna say a 5 for her. I think most of the time she's happy but past infidelity on my part has made things much harder than they need to be.

Anonymous wrote:5. I'm constantly frustrated with the lack of him initiating sex,
lack of taking charge/having an opinion. Married 11 yrs. he knows I'm unhappy. He is happy. Probably a solid 9. He just has no drive for sex, affection, closeness, etc-- he "can't" turn it on.

I hear you. married 5 years, hard for her to turn it on like I can.

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Married 5 years.

My issues are somewhat surface- he's cannot pick up after himself or the kids. But it kills me!!! Otherwise he's a peach.

7 for me, also married 5 years. my DW doesn't pick up after herself either. but we get along great, really soulmates. sex is good but not imaginative or adventurous... quality of life the same. generally I'm good and happy, but bored alot of the time, don't feel as though she's taking care of me like I seek to take care of her.

I've taken up the opportunities, usually when I was at a bar at night (a rare occurrence). I don't get alot of women hitting on me, probably because I'm not putting out that vibe, as I am a handsome guy. I don't hide the fact I'm married (except once or twice I did).

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Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

If only you knew... I love married men!

Do you weigh more than 200 pounds and bathe/brush teeth infrequently?

100 lbs and bath and brush twice a day. You have no idea what men do when they have a lunch break or are working late. My favorite, is when they so call go to work but end up spending their 9-5 with me.

We should talk 6ft 200lbs and I def bathe and brush twice a day, lol.

Before going home I often like to hop off the train, head over to a happy hour for a few, then pop back on and head home. Anyone recommend a nice, quiet place with interesting people? Female-friendly is better, no sports bars, and preferably off the yellow line. Blue works ok too.

FYI I'm a guy, enjoy meeting new people and people-watching, which is just boring when there is a 30:3 male, female ratio.