Married men - have you really had the opportunity to cheat?

[Anonymous]

After reading a similar thread from the women's perspective, I was wondering how many married men out there have been hit on and had the opportunity to cheat? Did you go there or did you pass up the offer?

[Anonymous]

DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

If only you knew... I love married men!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

If only you knew... I love married men!

Do you weigh more than 200 pounds and bathe/brush teeth infrequently?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

If only you knew... I love married men!

Do you weigh more than 200 pounds and bathe/brush teeth infrequently?

100 lbs and bath and brush twice a day. You have no idea what men do when they have a lunch break or are working late. My favorite, is when they so call go to work but end up spending their 9-5 with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

How do you know? My DH is a farm boy and he has been swept off his feet by a latin divorcee.

[Anonymous]

Nope, I have not. I'm moderately successful, decent looking, socially adept, and am in pretty good physical shape. (Modest too!) But, I'm not at all flirtatious. So women pretty much leave me alone.

[Anonymous]

My wife is convinced it happens all the time, but it never happens. And if a woman is putting out a vibe, I am not picking it up.

[Anonymous]

I bet my husband has had the opportunity. He's charismatic and makes a shitload of money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I have not. I'm moderately successful, decent looking, socially adept, and am in pretty good physical shape. (Modest too!) But, I'm not at all flirtatious. So women pretty much leave me alone.

Agree that usually the man has to put out the vibe (same for woman). If you aren't getting hit on, it doesn't mean you aren't attractive or charming, it's because you aren't giving either that desperate vibe (some) or interested vibe (others).

[Anonymous]

Define "hit on." Women flirt with me all the time, and I flirt back. Especially after reading all the stories hear about psychotic-horny 40-something women, I'm sure some of the women who flirt with me must be thinking dirty thoughts about me, which is gratifying and all, but nobody has asked me out for a drink or asked for my number.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Define "hit on." Women flirt with me all the time, and I flirt back. Especially after reading all the stories hear about psychotic-horny 40-something women, I'm sure some of the women who flirt with me must be thinking dirty thoughts about me, which is gratifying and all, but nobody has asked me out for a drink or asked for my number.

Has a woman given you her number? When you flirt, does the topic go to sex or affairs? If at a conference, has a woman invited you to her room?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

I'm probably one of the neighborhood women who's hit on him, and you are right! He wouldn't go for it. Word to the wise, though - fear of discovery is what's keeping him from cheating, not love for you. He needs more attention from you. You give all your attention to your computer and your children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Define "hit on." Women flirt with me all the time, and I flirt back. Especially after reading all the stories hear about psychotic-horny 40-something women, I'm sure some of the women who flirt with me must be thinking dirty thoughts about me, which is gratifying and all, but nobody has asked me out for a drink or asked for my number.

When I'm interested in a married guy, I ask him for his business card.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has been hit on by several of the women in our neighborhood. I'm fairly sure that he has declined their passes.

If only you knew... I love married men!

Do you weigh more than 200 pounds and bathe/brush teeth infrequently?

100 lbs and bath and brush twice a day. You have no idea what men do when they have a lunch break or are working late. My favorite, is when they so call go to work but end up spending their 9-5 with me.

Troll. No man would waste a whole weekday on an affair.