Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid?
I ask how old because we started at Montessori very young, it was only part-time but both of my kids were in it at 2, and it wasn't so clear at the time, but in retrospect, if I knew then what I know now, it would have been easy to tell that a long-term Montessori model would probably work well for one, not so great for the other. They are now both in Reggio and find the model fits their different styles well.
My older child, who is ahead of most of his class in a reading level in first grade, is extremely distractible. He thrives where he can play out his fantasies, but he needs pretty constant reminders to stay on task. His most-focused activities appear to be the "1000 language" tasks that the Reggio model supports. A child who won't sit still for 20 minutes at home will sit for an hour in school drawing some incredibly elaborate drawings. (I'm still not sure how his teachers manage it.) I can't be positive, but my gut is that Montessori probably would not have ended up well for him.
My younger child (now in PK4) doesn't seem, at this point, to have nearly as strong language skills as his brother, but is much more focused (OCD? - hopefully not) I think Montessori worked better for him and may have worked longer-term, but the Reggio model allows him to still get his perfectionist attention to detail stuff out yet it drags his introverted self into the community and also lets him know it's ok to make mistakes - in fact, sometimes mistakes are good!
If you have an 18-month-old, it might be able to tell if she's a good fit for one model already (again, I wouldn't have been able to see this at the time.) Is it difficult to pull her out of tantrums? How does she interact with her peers? Seeing how monumentally different my children are, I am convinced most of this stuff is not taught and that makes decision-making easier. (I'm going to keep telling myself that anyway