Would you be bothered if your spouse didn't reference you in their social media bio?

[Anonymous]

They mention our faith, our children, our dog, but no mention of you the spouse.

[Anonymous]

Um
No.

[Anonymous]

I’d think it were odd only if they mentioned all that other stuff. I have known a few cheaters who have done this. That is, have a personal social media bio with all the other personal stuff minus the kids.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry, I meant minus the spouse ^

[Anonymous]

Social media that says you love Jesus is so far into the “no” category that I don’t even know how to answer this. Why would you want to be included in this bio?

[Anonymous]

No. Neither of us do. It’s not relevant— we know we’re married and other people either already know or don’t need to.

[Anonymous]

I just looked at both our FB bios and we don’t mention each other. But, there are photos so that will have to do. Neither of us are very active on FB as I use it mostly to promote my crafts business. He rarely posts anything. On IG he does mention he’s married - yippee!

[Anonymous]

I don't mention him in mine, so I guess I'd better not get upset if he doesn't mention me in his!

[Anonymous]

If they mentioned the kids and dog, then yes.

If they didn't mention other family, then I wouldn't care at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Social media that says you love Jesus is so far into the “no” category that I don’t even know how to answer this. Why would you want to be included in this bio?

Since they are married I assume OP loves Jesus too, so it wouldn't be odd. I also assume OP feels put out because she ( I'm assuming) is left out of the list of important things, the dog gets a shout-out, but not her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d think it were odd only if they mentioned all that other stuff. I have known a few cheaters who have done this. That is, have a personal social media bio with all the other personal stuff minus the kids.

Me too, but they usually don't mention kids and Jesus, those tend not to be chick magnets.

[Anonymous]

My husband is obsessed with his image (yes, all other signs point to narcissist). He’s like a work social climber and loves posting photos of himself with other important / prominent people. My son and I never made the photos he was posting on IG / FB. Mind you, I don’t have FB but had so many friends come to me and say, “did you see your husband’s post?” I hadn’t seen any of them.

And yes, turns out he was cheating and I have a feeling the OWs his wife and kid were living abroad (we were not)

[Anonymous]

It would be weird if he included kids and pets in his bio but not me. I don’t have my husband in my bio and I’m not in his...the people who know us and those that matter know we are married.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know but the question makes me glad I’m not married.

[Anonymous]

TBH having a bio with a bunch of personal info in it would annoy me-but only bc she mentioned the kids in it.