Sean “Diddy” Combs accused of gang rape of teen girl in new lawsuit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

This is a response that fits with what we would all like to believe as liberals. But there’s something more going on here. The incredibly high rates at which young boys are preyed upon by adult men in the gay community to the point at which being sodomized as a minor by a much older man is virtually a rite of passage for gay men bears closer examination. Lying to yourself in order to avoid discomfort and keep up with progressive dogma at the expensive children isn’t good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

Do you have any evidence for this or is this just what you’d like to believe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.newsnationnow.com/entertainment-news/suge-knight-jlo-ben-affleck-divorce-diddy-raids-tapes/

How deep and connected to the past is JLo? Reason for spilt from Ben?

You REALLY hate her. It’s impressive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is also Lou Pearlman. He and Sean Combs were both involved in Making the Band - putting together teen boy groups.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

Harvey Weinstein had male victims? Is this proven?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

This is a response that fits with what we would all like to believe as liberals. But there’s something more going on here. The incredibly high rates at which young boys are preyed upon by adult men in the gay community to the point at which being sodomized as a minor by a much older man is virtually a rite of passage for gay men bears closer examination. Lying to yourself in order to avoid discomfort and keep up with progressive dogma at the expensive children isn’t good.

Oh shut up. No, it’s not “virtually a rite of passage” for gay men to sodomize boys. You’re bigoted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

Benny Medina is not closeted. Neither is Clive Davis.

Nor are Diddy, R Kelly, LA Reid etc. remotely closeted in their personal lives. Their wives, girlfriends, parents, friends, business associates all knew these men were bisexual and even knew these men’s male longtime lovers and short-term flings. PP is confusing maintaining a PR image to the public with being closeted. The theory that the pain of being closeted is why these men are violent deviants simply doesn’t hold up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is also Lou Pearlman. He and Sean Combs were both involved in Making the Band - putting together teen boy groups.

Lou Pearlman died in prison but Lance Bass made a great documentary about him. He was a groomer and a creep. He was never convicted of sexual crimes against the young men but it was an open secret. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcCRs0Ic3FI&t

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

This is a response that fits with what we would all like to believe as liberals. But there’s something more going on here. The incredibly high rates at which young boys are preyed upon by adult men in the gay community to the point at which being sodomized as a minor by a much older man is virtually a rite of passage for gay men bears closer examination. Lying to yourself in order to avoid discomfort and keep up with progressive dogma at the expensive children isn’t good.

Oh shut up. No, it’s not “virtually a rite of passage” for gay men to sodomize boys. You’re bigoted.

New poster here. It is changing but older gay men with twinks was a big part of gay culture. Now that more young men are out and open about being gay, there are more options but the twinks used to also seek out older men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I think there are predators of all sexual types: gay, straight, bi.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I don’t think that’s true at all, but I do think being closeted and likely self-hating is correlated with bad stuff. I’m Catholic and I think the problem with predatory priests totally arose from the hypocrisy around gay stigma. Once you’ve said that same-sex relationships are transgressive and bad, you start to lose focus on what actually is transgressive and bad (abuse of power or lack of consent). I think urban Black rap culture historically stigmatized gay male behavior much like the Catholic Church did, so they ended up with a similar problem. Stigmatizing gay men is NOT the solution to the problem. Gay men who are out and comfortable with their sexuality are probably the least likely men to be predatory.

This is a response that fits with what we would all like to believe as liberals. But there’s something more going on here. The incredibly high rates at which young boys are preyed upon by adult men in the gay community to the point at which being sodomized as a minor by a much older man is virtually a rite of passage for gay men bears closer examination. Lying to yourself in order to avoid discomfort and keep up with progressive dogma at the expensive children isn’t good.

Oh shut up. No, it’s not “virtually a rite of passage” for gay men to sodomize boys. You’re bigoted.

You have the right to lie to yourself in order to maintain your politically correct delusions, but you don’t have the right to force others to play along.

Even if you don’t hang out with enough gay men to hear how many have stories of being “turned out” by older men as kids and early teens, there is A LOT of objective evidence establishing that gay youths average age at sexual debut is 13 to 14 and even YOUNGER for black gay youths…AND these youths partners (aka molestors) are typically fully adult men.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3150640/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4980294/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7775328/

I’m sure google works just fine for you, so get to educating yourself on this if the truth is what you’re after.

[Anonymous]

Isn't being "on the downlow" a known behavior among Black men so much so that there's this word for it? The culture is inherently conservative and homosexuality is not accepted, so gay or bi men pretend to be straight but act on it on secret, and then act homophonic as a defense mechanism.

The closet kills.

[Anonymous]

^^homophobic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Isn't being "on the downlow" a known behavior among Black men so much so that there's this word for it? The culture is inherently conservative and homosexuality is not accepted, so gay or bi men pretend to be straight but act on it on secret, and then act homophonic as a defense mechanism.

The closet kills.

Oprah had a famous episode called “brothers on the downlow”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, is it that gay and bisexual men are more likely to be predatory and dangerous, or why do all of these predators always turn out to be gay or bisexual? Even Harvey Weinstein had male victims, as did Epstein. Considering all the studies showing male homosexuality and male bisexuality are linked to being more sensation seeking and promiscuous, men having sex with men seems to be a red flag of male dangerousness.

I think there are predators of all sexual types: gay, straight, bi.

Try to keep up. Obviously, there are predators of all types, but gay and bisexual men do seem to form a disproportionate number of the most prolific and aggressive predators. I know it’s not PC to talk about, but pretending not to see what we see doesn’t make the world a better place.