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DCUM, how bad are the initials BJM on a girl? Specifically the BJ part. Our baby is due in July, it's also the month that we married, so we're really into the middle name "Juliet". The B is 100% the first name. The other name we really like is Virginia as a middle name, but then BV also sounds terrible (like bacterial vaginosis).
Does it matter that the first two initials say BJ? Or it is only a bad thing if your last name starts with a J? |
| Bad |
| Literally just don't. |
| Not a big deal, and likely won't even be noticed unless you're really into monograms or something. |
| OP here. We are into monograms, but the monogram would be bMj |
| BM is bad enough. Her monogram will be bMj. |
| No. Just stay way from BJ altogether. |
| Don't do it. Kids can be cruel. |
| My moms initials were bj (after marriage) and it was a non-issue. |
| I know a woman who goes by the initials "BJ." I don't even know what her real name is. She's the mom of one of my kid's close friends. |
| My babysitter has these initials and has them in her email and I’ve never once thought about the connotations. I think it’s fine. |
| Beatrice Virginia Juliet Matthews |
Good grief. Most kids don't make fun of kids' initials. I doubt many people would even ask their middle name. |
| I know a man who goes by BJ. I don’t think anything of it personally. |
| Non issue to me. |