Same here but for OP's daughter... Poor kid. |
| Who knows someone’s initials and then teases about it? That’s so obscure. Yeah, kids tease about everything, but that’s very specific. OPs daughter can also be teased about her hair or height or nose. |
| Those are terrible. Don't do it. |
| My HS boyfriends initials were BJ and I definitely noticed it. His last name started with O, so his initials were also. BO. Don't do it to your kid! |
Yes, kids tease about everything and it will be bad enough... why make it worse for the kid? |
| BJMe (BJM). Don't |
What does this mean? |
| Good lord, I wouldn’t give it a second thought. |
| I'd be more worried about BM than BJ, and even that wouldn't stop me from using it. |
It means give ME a BJ. Such a stretch. |
| BJ and BM would both be problems for me. |
+1 As far as the kid's classmates know, her initials will be BM, not BJ. If you're not undeterred by BM (and I wouldn't be either), I don't understand how the worry comes into play about "BJ" or "BJM" - unless you're planning a double-barrel name. |
Stretch? You don't see middle school boys saying that to tease girls? |
Did you memorize all your middle school classmates' middle names? |
What a dumb comment. You don't have to memorize anything with initials like BJM! That's the POINT. |