| I am 4 ft 11 stocky with cankles a bit of a gut big legs and meat on my arms and a short neck. I diet and workout but haven't lost in a while. Anyway I tried a dating app for the first time and only skinny white guys are interested. They call me gorgeous and sexy. I thought most men in general preferred and married skinny women though? |
| That hasn't been my experience, and I'm overweight. I have people from all types of backgrounds matching with me. |
| Are interested in these skinny white men or do you prefer someone different? |
| I think so, as far as sexual relations. Probably not for marriage though. Sorry. |
| Chub chasers ... it's a thing |
| I mean depends on how cute your face is. |
Does it? So men aren't attracted to body? |
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No different than women, men are attracted to potentially all things, often a combination, not just attracted to a single thing, like a pretty faces or "chub".
I would like to say, there's misogyny in terms like fat and chub. It's voluptuous. Even "sturdy gal" is better. OP, you sound voluptuous, embrace it! Go get those guys! |
[b] You need to eat fewer calories than you expend. Track your calories and do fun exercise regularly. |
| They just want sex. They throw darts on apps and see which ones will bend over the quickest. |
| it is not a new thing. |
On a dating app, these men are looking for sex not marriage. |
| The vast majority of women these days are a bit overweight. Men want what they can get. |
| The fatter ones will usually put out sooner |
Yes, people understand this is the way to lose weight. They just don’t like being constantly hungry living in a calorie deprivation. Ever heard the term hangry? It’s very hard to eat less than your body is used to eating. For most people, too difficult to maintain over time. |