Tinder, why do guys match but don't message?
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Anonymous
| Have hundreds of matches but only a few message. What gives? |
Anonymous
| They might also have a lot of matches? |
Anonymous
| Men tend to swipe right on everyone then sort later. |
Anonymous
Everyone does this. It's the best strategy. |
Anonymous
Not if you understand how the algorithms work. |
Anonymous
| Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt. |
Anonymous
I am a woman and don't do this. Yuck. |
Anonymous
It’s the best strategy for men. Women can be more choosy. |
Anonymous
| You know you can message them too right? |
Anonymous
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Women DO NOT swipe right on everyone.
Jesus Christ, have you seen the men on Tinder aged 45-55? Trust me, 75% look like your dad. |
Anonymous
| I don't get it. Do you not message them?! |
Anonymous
Every guy I know who was on Tinder did this. |
Anonymous
| They think you’re attractive enough to swipe but not message |
Anonymous
| Sometimes I only match with them so I can keep ogling their photos. Younger women often post nothing but bikini and lingerie photos of themselves. |
Anonymous
So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end |