Tinder, why do guys match but don't message?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I only match with them so I can keep ogling their photos. Younger women often post nothing but bikini and lingerie photos of themselves.


I am the op and in my late 30s but yes I have no issue showing my body. BTW not all younger women are attractive.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


What is bf Egypt?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women DO NOT swipe right on everyone.

Jesus Christ, have you seen the men on Tinder aged 45-55? Trust me, 75% look like your dad.


Agree as the op. Most of those over 45 men look like rip van Winkle. Since I look young for my age already those men look older than my dad and mom who ages well too.
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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman
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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman


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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman




Tender creature, the fact that you even have this image in your possession tells me you don’t understand what happens on Tinder.
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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman




Tender creature, the fact that you even have this image in your possession tells me you don’t understand what happens on Tinder.


Its not in my possession. But in the positive vibes ig page. You are bringing out negative vibes with your viciousness. Go play somewhere else girl.
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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman




Tender creature, the fact that you even have this image in your possession tells me you don’t understand what happens on Tinder.


Its not in my possession. But in the positive vibes ig page. You are bringing out negative vibes with your viciousness. Go play somewhere else girl.


You follow the “positive vibes” IG page. Rub two-ply on your forehead until you stop crying then sign up for e-harmony. When you unmatch someone on tinder, they go back into the candidate pile and you can rematch again. If you’re genuinely uninterested, keep them matched so you don’t have them in your candidates anymore. It’s a way of keeping track of who you don’t want in what amounts to a numbers game. If you don’t like the power dynamics associated with liking people based solely on their picture and collecting as many swipes as possible so you can pick from a list, this isn’t your rodeo.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:They think you’re attractive enough to swipe but not message


+1
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Anonymous wrote:Because I swipe first on your looks. If we match I go back and look closer and realize you’re either a freak, misleading photos or live in bf Egypt.


So why don't you unmatch me? Instead you keep me on your matches for months on end


Because I don’t want to accidentally re-match with you when I’m drunk-swiping.

- a woman




Tender creature, the fact that you even have this image in your possession tells me you don’t understand what happens on Tinder.


Its not in my possession. But in the positive vibes ig page. You are bringing out negative vibes with your viciousness. Go play somewhere else girl.


You follow the “positive vibes” IG page. Rub two-ply on your forehead until you stop crying then sign up for e-harmony. When you unmatch someone on tinder, they go back into the candidate pile and you can rematch again. If you’re genuinely uninterested, keep them matched so you don’t have them in your candidates anymore. It’s a way of keeping track of who you don’t want in what amounts to a numbers game. If you don’t like the power dynamics associated with liking people based solely on their picture and collecting as many swipes as possible so you can pick from a list, this isn’t your rodeo.


By you giving me that advice I know you haven't signed up for eharmony. Also what is up with your bitchiness? Are you that depressed?

Also tinder reddit says you are wrong

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/bli6ii/does_unmatching_somebody_release_them_back_into/
Anonymous
Because on those dating sites you are a dime a dozen?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Because on those dating sites you are a dime a dozen?


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