Husband wants to record...

[Anonymous]

Us in the act. Has anybody ever dealt with this? I trust he won’t do anything with it, but still. Just says he thinks it would be fun to watch.

I don’t know. Doesn’t feel right but maybe I should be more open.

[Anonymous]

Why doesn’t it feel right? Go with your gut. If you’re not into it, it won’t be much of a video.

You say you trust him though...

[Anonymous]

Nope. .

[Anonymous]

Of course not. No good can come from it. Most likely bad.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, i definitely nix photos or vids. No thanks.

We do all sorts of interesting things. No way does it need to be documented.

[Anonymous]

Nope!!!!

[Anonymous]

Would he be open to recording, watching, and immediately deleting? (You delete it yourself, so you know it’s gone).

[Anonymous]

The no vote wins.

[Anonymous]

Only do this on old school air gapped camera, like a powershot.

Watch together. Then delete.

The put camera in a double ziploc bag, put card in another double plastic bag and pound with claw side of hammer until rendered into bits.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

We used an old phone without cellular service or wifi. Mostly pics and short clips. We'd look at them together every once in a while.

[Anonymous]

If you have enough trust, give it a shot. Sounds fun.

[Anonymous]

No way
It could get stolen and you could wind up on porn hub

[Anonymous]

We have a go pro just for this. I like knowing DH is watching/ thinking about me while traveling for work.

I make a fun calendar for him every year as well

[Anonymous]

You all need to grow up. It’s your DH not a guy on tinder.

If you (or PPs) are that lacking in trust then there’s a whole other set of issues.