Husband wants to record...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It doesn't matter how common it is and it's not an issue of trust. If both parties aren't interested it's off the table.

Yes! Also talk about it beforehand.

My DH of 25 year did this and I completely trusted him. He videotaped a lot - he was super into it. He violated my trust - shared pics with me online with strangers. We are still dealing with the fall out/betrayal from it.

[Anonymous]

I would have no problem with this. DH wants to do it too, but with 3 little kids in the house it just takes too much preparation.
I have done it with an ex before... I believe we deleted it soon after... but it was before cellphones had videos so we did it with a camera... I trust people in general

[Anonymous]

I’m about as prudish as one can get but we’ve had fun with this with the right deletion option. When my husband mentioned it I was “are you crazy” but then I thought why the heck not. I kind of like the acting required because just filming a normal night isn’t Oscar worthy. But it’s only a few nights a year but it’s always memorable and it’s actually made our non filmed nights a lot better.

[Anonymous]

Heck yes!

[Anonymous]

I met my wife at a happy hour in May 2001. When I saw her stand up to grab a chair for me my jaw hit the floor. I still remember what she was wearing that day and I’ve been crazy about her ever since. She’s sent a few racy pics and I’ve taken a few and pics/videos over the years. My only regret is that I don’t have more!

[Anonymous]

We made a script, did blocking shots and it was so much fun; it took a few days to work up the whole scene and camera angles but when we did it it was an absolute blast.

Our video was probably 20 years ago and people would’ve wanted to see it, right now I’d want about 10 inches of gauze in front of the camera and I’d also like an extraordinarily dark room!
It’s fun, just don’t let it get out of your hands but there’s really no need to be upset about this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We made a script, did blocking shots and it was so much fun; it took a few days to work up the whole scene and camera angles but when we did it it was an absolute blast.

Our video was probably 20 years ago and people would’ve wanted to see it, right now I’d want about 10 inches of gauze in front of the camera and I’d also like an extraordinarily dark room!
It’s fun, just don’t let it get out of your hands but there’s really no need to be upset about this.

Ha - that sounds fun! Did you have lines? Was it a role play?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We made a script, did blocking shots and it was so much fun; it took a few days to work up the whole scene and camera angles but when we did it it was an absolute blast.

Our video was probably 20 years ago and people would’ve wanted to see it, right now I’d want about 10 inches of gauze in front of the camera and I’d also like an extraordinarily dark room!
It’s fun, just don’t let it get out of your hands but there’s really no need to be upset about this.

Ha - that sounds fun! Did you have lines? Was it a role play?

We had a script with notes regarding backstory and motivation for our characters; this is around the time that project green light first came out so we were both really into filmmaking LOL. If you lived near the Braddock metro sometime around 99 you may have seen us filming exterior shots.
Back then I would take blueline to work and without fail a soldier would hit on me at least three times a week so we built the script around that.
The video had me have a fight with my husband in the morning then get hit on by a guy on the metro, I run into the same guy on my way home and then we take it back to my place; my husband was obviously the guy I had a fight with and the guy who hits on me and has sex with me but we agreed to suspend disbelief. Working together on the project was awesome and we had tons of sex while we were figuring out the best angles and way to shoot.

I am absolutely grinning ear to ear as I write this, kids suck!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We made a script, did blocking shots and it was so much fun; it took a few days to work up the whole scene and camera angles but when we did it it was an absolute blast.

Our video was probably 20 years ago and people would’ve wanted to see it, right now I’d want about 10 inches of gauze in front of the camera and I’d also like an extraordinarily dark room!
It’s fun, just don’t let it get out of your hands but there’s really no need to be upset about this.

Ha - that sounds fun! Did you have lines? Was it a role play?

We had a script with notes regarding backstory and motivation for our characters; this is around the time that project green light first came out so we were both really into filmmaking LOL. If you lived near the Braddock metro sometime around 99 you may have seen us filming exterior shots.
Back then I would take blueline to work and without fail a soldier would hit on me at least three times a week so we built the script around that.
The video had me have a fight with my husband in the morning then get hit on by a guy on the metro, I run into the same guy on my way home and then we take it back to my place; my husband was obviously the guy I had a fight with and the guy who hits on me and has sex with me but we agreed to suspend disbelief. Working together on the project was awesome and we had tons of sex while we were figuring out the best angles and way to shoot.

I am absolutely grinning ear to ear as I write this, kids suck!!

Was that a fun role play scenario?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We made a script, did blocking shots and it was so much fun; it took a few days to work up the whole scene and camera angles but when we did it it was an absolute blast.

Our video was probably 20 years ago and people would’ve wanted to see it, right now I’d want about 10 inches of gauze in front of the camera and I’d also like an extraordinarily dark room!
It’s fun, just don’t let it get out of your hands but there’s really no need to be upset about this.

Ha - that sounds fun! Did you have lines? Was it a role play?

We had a script with notes regarding backstory and motivation for our characters; this is around the time that project green light first came out so we were both really into filmmaking LOL. If you lived near the Braddock metro sometime around 99 you may have seen us filming exterior shots.
Back then I would take blueline to work and without fail a soldier would hit on me at least three times a week so we built the script around that.
The video had me have a fight with my husband in the morning then get hit on by a guy on the metro, I run into the same guy on my way home and then we take it back to my place; my husband was obviously the guy I had a fight with and the guy who hits on me and has sex with me but we agreed to suspend disbelief. Working together on the project was awesome and we had tons of sex while we were figuring out the best angles and way to shoot.

I am absolutely grinning ear to ear as I write this, kids suck!!

Was that a fun role play scenario?

Absolutely!

[Anonymous]

Just do it. Geesh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course not. No good can come from it. Most likely bad.

In theory, yes I concur with the above response.

However Paris Hilton would not be running an entire empire if she had not been recorded nor would any of the Kardashians be as filthy rich as they are.

Perspective....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It doesn't matter how common it is and it's not an issue of trust. If both parties aren't interested it's off the table.

Yes! Also talk about it beforehand.

My DH of 25 year did this and I completely trusted him. He videotaped a lot - he was super into it. He violated my trust - shared pics with me online with strangers. We are still dealing with the fall out/betrayal from it.

What is the website?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It doesn't matter how common it is and it's not an issue of trust. If both parties aren't interested it's off the table.

Yes! Also talk about it beforehand.

My DH of 25 year did this and I completely trusted him. He videotaped a lot - he was super into it. He violated my trust - shared pics with me online with strangers. We are still dealing with the fall out/betrayal from it.

What is the website?

PP what is wrong with you? Creep.

[Anonymous]

As long as you don't let it go to the cloud and you delete it it is innocent fun. We've been married 24 years and recording once in awhile is an easy way to keep our love life hopping.